Therefore, the pregnancy of a woman in thirty years is more often planned than casual. And the child can be born both in a complete family, and without a father. In this case, a woman gives birth to a baby for herself, fully realizing it. Therefore, no worries related to relations in the family, with her husband, in this period is almost never the case. Rationality is the alpha and omega of this age, its pros and cons.
Problem
The future mummies of thirty years often forget that not everything is in their power, especially such a mystery as the course of pregnancy.
Decision
The main thing for a woman's pregnancy in thirty years is to awaken a sensuous sphere. Plans should be built on the basis of the sensations "here and now", and not by checking with the weekly or scientific articles. Knowing that a rational approach to any business - the passion of a woman, relatives and friends can try to manipulate you, taking the reins of government into their own hands. Therefore, first of all you should do what you like, not what everyone advises. If you want to work, and it really does not harm the baby, work. I want to walk - walk, drive a car - drive, eat a certain food - eat.
Problem
Unfortunately, when a woman is pregnant at thirty, it's more difficult to keep a girl figure than a 20-year-old girl. For many women, this is a serious reason for unrest. And much earlier than this problem will arise. And on the nerves of the risk of recovering only increases.
Decision
In this case, it should be remembered that the weight is typed 9 months and "leaves" the same time. By the first anniversary of the baby any woman, if desired, comes in good physical shape. The most important thing after the birth of a child is not to forget about his intention to have a slender figure, not to give up on himself and not to justify extra pounds by the fact that now, as already giving birth to a woman, a deputy can do it.
Problem
Pregnancy of a woman at thirty can turn and bad, psychologists, believe that if they collect all the information, then the situation will be under their complete control - they will appreciate it and draw conclusions no worse than professional doctors. Adding to the medical history of her friends, "by the kindness of the soul", nothing telling about the birth, except horrors, the future mother begins to worry not so much for the ongoing pregnancy, but for the outcome of childbirth. And in her reasonable head ripen different solutions, for example: "Give birth under anesthesia, and through cesarean." It is difficult for physicians to dissuade such omniscience, and this gives rise to many problems.
Decision
Gathering information is certainly a useful thing. But the doctor is still more visible, because each situation is unique in its own way. It is best to find a doctor who will be completely trusted. And to the advice of experienced girlfriends do not belong to the truth in the last resort. If you do this, you will spend significantly more nerve cells. Experienced girlfriends are better "use" as a source of information about good doctors.
Problem
Having planned and "carried out" a woman's pregnancy in thirty years, they immediately begin to build in their minds the whole life of their still unborn child.
And since the main activity of the future mother for the last years lay in the social sphere, the future of the baby is also pictured as an ascent along the social ladder. Mom plans in advance the child's abilities, his interests, passions, hobbies, looking for a kindergarten, a school, an institute and even a job. Girls are immediately selected by suitors from worthy candidates - the sons of their girlfriends. Such fantasies and pregnancy of a woman in thirty years bear unrealized abilities and desires of the woman herself. By imposing them on the child, you can break his whole life, replacing the child's individuality with his ambitions.
Decision
To dream about the future should be done correctly. Once only God knows how the baby will be born and grow up - a boy or a girl, musical or sports, shy or pugnacious, it is worthwhile presenting different versions of the development of events. For example, today you can dream, how life will develop with a quiet blond girl, and tomorrow - in an unbearable tomboy with freckles all over his face.
But no matter how a child is born, first of all he needs a warm, emotional, sensual mother. These qualities are not enough for young modern women, who live more with reason than with the heart. Perhaps the ebullient energy will very soon drive the young mother to work.
Problem
Ignoring your own state. It often happens that the expectant mother is so used to working hard that she is not ready (can not) reduce the load. She sits up late at the computer, flies to the other end of the earth ... Active pregnancy - it's wonderful! If the woman does not forget to listen to herself and does not ignore the arising ailments, which can later turn into a tragedy.
Decision
Sometimes there are situations when you need to be able to say "stop" work and give priority to health.
Baby born
A woman, accustomed to the fact that life beats the key, it is difficult to stay at home at a cot. Her task at this stage is to find a time for emotional communication with the baby, clearly planning the future work schedule.
To children of business mums first of all there is no caress, touch, fuss, embraces, bright joint experiences. Mom should always remember this (you can even write it into the organizer), and then everything will be fine with your baby.
Do not show the baby excessive demands. He should be sure that you love him not for success, but just like that, "unconditionally." If the neighbor's baby starts to sit or speak before, it does not mean that yours is more stupid, develops worse, and does not do much with him. The rate of development in children is individual, and it is different in different years of life. Do not forget that most of the time of wakefulness the kid has to play, and not visit endless developmental pursuits.
Do not let us play on our rationality!
Do not go on about the husband, who persuades you to leave work, arguing that when a woman is pregnant at thirty, you need to rest more. Wobbling all day around the apartment in a dressing gown is unlikely to bring you much health and pleasure. Only you decide how to spend your pregnancy. If you stop being yourself, and you indulge the advice of others, you risk becoming irritable and anxious.