Pros and Cons of Civil Marriage

This kind of marriage has both supporters and opponents. It also happens that disagreements between the parties lead to a break in relations. Most often this situation happens: a man wants to give the girl his name and "ring", but she for her part says that she is not yet ready for such a decisive step. Or else there is such an option: "Well, at least kill" you need a husband, but he does not understand why this "senseless" stamp in the passport is needed, because they already love each other so much. It is wonderful of course, when the positions of both sides coincide. But still let's try to independently assess all the pros and cons of civil marriage, as well as highlight its pros and cons.

The first and, perhaps, one of the main drawbacks, cited by opponents of civil marriage - legal insecurity. A really significant argument. Sudden death, for some reason or one of the roommates and, most likely you will not have any rights to the property. Under the law, it will go to the direct and official relatives. Of course, you can prove a civil marriage. Confirmation will be shared living, common children or a spending account. But it's not so easy to prove the very first point. He often leads to such consequences as long legal proceedings. And even the most experienced lawyer can not divide the acquired property during a civil marriage.

On the other hand, the subsequent division of property is not always important for cohabitants. Therefore, if you do not have the goal of "picking up" your chosen one, then the first lack of civil marriage should not frighten you. In the extreme case, you can always write a will.

Another problem is those same common children. According to statistics, children born in a civil marriage, are born premature and weak. This fact is explained by psychology: the mother, when she conceives her child, sometimes starts to think: "And if the civil husband suddenly leaves?" It is very difficult to be a single mother at all times.

But suppose that the child is born healthy and the family lives in well-being.
In any case, a civil marriage is an ideal solution for those who want to test their feelings without having children in common.

So, we can conclude: most of the problems of civil marriage - can be solved. On the other hand, it is necessary to approach the solution of the same problems consciously, and not for the benefit of one partner to another. The choice is yours.

Tatyana Martynova , specially for the site