In what all the same business? . . In personal luck, in your own laziness or something else? Why do some achieve much without applying, as it seems, special efforts, while others spin like a squirrel in a wheel and return to their previous position? . .
So, already asking yourself these questions, you will not achieve much. Stop looking at others with the enviable word "why", use the success of others as a stimulant of your own success. "If someone has achieved something, then I can" - that's the right attitude in all endeavors. To achieve success means to strive for success. Notice that there is a verb everywhere, that is, an action. And if we talk about action, then we have to do something, work in the right direction, and not just think, envy, dream. Proper thinking and a positive attitude help to achieve a lot of what is desired and conceived.
Now we will sort out the "quality of success" and, so to speak, qualities that prevent us from achieving anything in life. But, knowing what to do, you, still, are unlikely to start doing something the opposite.
What gives a woman personal success? For everyone it's your own. As a rule, this is independence, self-realization, personal development, as well as financial stability. A successful person is attractive to everyone, if at the same time he does not lose his important human qualities. Therefore, to be successful, not necessarily in a career, but in life, makes a woman a woman. It is simply important to be able to properly use your success, so that it is always with you.
So, an important step on the way to the desired, that is, to success, is the existence of a goal or, more to say, a dream. Everything that you gain, everything you achieve began with your desires, thoughts and ideas. When you go to the store, you are "pursued" by the purpose of something to buy, so in everything. There is quite a logical chain: "desire-action-result". Naturally, great people have great goals. What is the life goal of an alcoholic? I think I should not answer this question, you yourself know the answer to it. Wishing for a small one, we get a small one. Thinking that we will not achieve anything more, we will not achieve it that way, because it is not ours, we ourselves know it ...
Now we are moving on to the next important quality - the belief in success . It is because of the lack of faith that many people "bury" their dreams in nowhere, because they are not sure of their capabilities, or the realism of their desires.
So, you know what you want, you are sure that you will have it, now think about what you are ready to do and what you will do to fulfill your goals . If you want a country house, are you ready to work more if you have the opportunity of additional earnings, are you ready to take on a new project, if you are offered a new interesting business, are you ready to develop to achieve success, etc. Dream, desires and the belief in their implementation will, as a magnet, attract opportunities for their implementation, and, naturally, taking advantage of these opportunities, you will contribute to the realization of the dream.
Another big mistake many make is that we want everything at once, but this is not always the case. Therefore, many "throw" their dreams into a long box, identifying them with unreality, and, of course, losing their faith in success. And only persistent and confident individuals go to the end. And it's not necessary to be born like this, you can cultivate such qualities in yourself.
Appreciate your time , spend it on useful things, useful things. The ability to plan your time and your life is an important step towards success. We have one life and it is very important, if you want to achieve something, use your time with benefit. If you analyze, then a huge part of your personal time is wasted and meaningless: for empty unnecessary phone calls, for disputes and conflicts, for idleness and unnecessary business. Yes, we need to communicate and it is important, but sometimes we say "about everything and about anything", we call to "kill" our time, etc. Perhaps this part of your precious time would be better spent on something more valuable : for example, reading books, listening to interesting discs, attending seminars and trainings, after all, developing your own child. It is worth remembering that children are the best investment you make in life, so remember the attention to your children.
Put the attitude toward yourself first : how you look, how you behave, your manners and gestures, your appearance play an important role in achieving success. And no matter what external data you possess, it is important that you do in order to look good. Your clothes, your style of behavior speak for you. A healthy lifestyle, physical development, rational nutrition are the true companions of your excellent form, good mood, and, consequently, success.
It is important to do something every day to realize your dream . A very important point is to feed up one's own faith in success, purposefulness, self-improvement and self-development. An important role in this matter is played by books, CDs, trainings, seminars. Choose something that you like, new information in any case will do you good. The only thing, seriously consider the choice of courses on self-development. In connection with the good demand for this type of information, a considerable number of scammers have appeared, wishing to earn on it. You need to pay for valuable, useful and qualitative information, so analyze in detail what the training program offers, perhaps choose a school and training on the recommendation of friends and acquaintances.
Well, do not forget about the practice . After all, the sense of your knowledge, when they are only in your head. Formulate your goal, dream and imagine it in all colors. Remember, an important step to success is bringing the matter to the end. And let small failures not stop you, they too are important on the way to success, a kind of check, whether you will break down halfway. And forward! Start today, right now, do not postpone IT for tomorrow, because "tomorrow has an unusual ability not to step". Starting now, you will make the first important step on the road to your success. Good luck and great achievements!