Disappointment.
Perhaps this is the lesser evil that can happen. It happens that a sudden flare-up passion imparts to the partner great promises, which he does not justify. A small penis, a short sexual act, awkward movements, and just unshaven legs - anything can be disappointed. Then there is a feeling of regret and guilt, because if all went well, it was another pleasant memory, albeit not one that you can easily share at dinner.
Out of place.
Random connections are never on time. It is impossible to prepare for this. It also happens that you go to a business lunch, after which you find yourself in the same bed as a partner of the chef. Or you find an interesting person when you have a cold. But most of all it's a shame that sex occurs in the most unimaginable places. Toilet in the club, shop in the park, another apartment, study, train compartment - million options. And in each of them you can be.
Gossip.
Among other things, casual communication is a find for gossips. If once you managed to leave with a stranger without being noticed, then the habit of easy dating can lead to the fact that everyone knows about your accessibility - friends, ill-wishers, colleagues, neighbors and even relatives. Another's intimate life - it always stirs up curiosity, so lovers of casual connections are always at the sight of the sharp tongues of people around them. And this seriously damages the reputation.
Health.
The most disgusting thing that can happen in such situations is the absence of a condom. It has long been known that AIDS and many other diseases are not saved by candles and tablets, and reliable protection is necessary. But sometimes the passion is muffled by the voice of the mind, after which weeks of experience and fear come.
Health is better not to take risks, most often casual sex is not worth it so that you stand in line for admission to the venereologist. The most sensible is the rejection of sex, if at hand was not a condom.
At dawn.
It is very awkward in the morning when you wake up in someone else's apartment with a stranger. Yesterday's euphoria somewhere disappeared, from the momentary passion there is no trace, and you are hurrying to work or home. But much worse, if yesterday's lover, whose name you remember with difficulty, is in your bed. You have to wake up, apologize, leave or leave. He will ask for the telephone number on duty, and you will completely lie on the last two digits. It is in the morning that you reflect - and whether all these were worth such sacrifices?
How to avoid accidental links?
Random links always leave conflicting feelings. Even if the night was successful, in the morning, you always somehow stay in the shower for a particularly long time. You come up with a lot of excuses to yourself and promise that you will never again.
In order that such situations do not really repeat, do not look for them. Do not abuse alcohol in companies or in clubs, do not agree to spend an evening with strangers, do not give slack emotions.
If you try to direct your energy to finding a permanent partner, then it is likely that casual connections will disappear from life on their own.
No matter how strict the moral standards, in life there has always been a place for casual connections. At first only men were sinning this, but now it happens with women. Sometimes such relationships do not harm, especially if you're lucky with a partner, sex was protected, and nobody knew about it. But in most cases there must be a reason that will make you regret it. Whether it is necessary to add to itself problems - everyone solves itself.