One of the most interesting activities at the wedding has long been the bride's redemption. However, often the groom fiercely dissuades from his conduct, citing some reasons, very weighty in his opinion. Do not argue until hoarseness, it's better to sit down and calmly discuss everything. Today in our article - "Scenarios, redemption of the bride at the wedding."
The groom may think that ransom is just child's play, which is not to the face of serious and adult people. In this case, it should be explained that the wedding is in many ways a theatrical performance, and the young are the main characters. The ransom provides the opportunity to fool around and get rid of stress. Let the groom do not take everything seriously, this part of the wedding is comic. Find out if the groom simply objects to the money aspect or certain tasks. Even if you decided that there will be no ransom, the bride and groom's meeting can be beaten in a different way, the main thing with imagination is to approach this issue.
To the groom was on ransom fully armed, prepare him for him in advance. Tell us what kind of props will be needed so that the groom and his friends do not look stupid on buying.
Brides should be advised not to come up with tasks that can not be performed or frankly stupid, for example, to drink a jar of water or a glass of vodka, then it will be worse for you. Do not require the gift of things large and not necessary.
Having compiled the scenario of the ransom, give the list of the required things to the groom. You can do otherwise - to prepare everything yourself and at the last minute to transfer through a confidant to the groom. If the groom does not have a list, he must take care of his equipment himself. It should include: money (more coins), alcohol, sweets and sweets. Let the groom memorize a couple of poems and songs about love, and maybe chastushki. It should be repeated all the important dates of your acquaintance and the life of the bride, and also remember gentle and affectionate words.
The optimal time for bride price is from 20 to 40 minutes, because it should be well remembered for everyone, but not be bored of getting bored. Brides should calculate their time in advance so that by the time of redemption be completely ready for departure.
The bridegroom must be warned in advance about the exact time of arrival at the ransom. Known grooms, who try to cheat, arriving at a time when it's time to go to the registry office. But they act wrong and upset their beloved, who prepared for this event in advance. Previously, too, should not come, still can not all be ready. The best option is to call before leaving and agree on the moment.
To ransom the bride has gone as planned, not enough to follow the script. There are several rules, following which everything will go as you wanted.
If you have developed an accurate scenario (which is exactly how it should be), then follow it clearly. The bride's friends take their places and move according to the developed scheme. One should not limit oneself to simply performing tasks and reading poems while standing in one place, this leads to confrontation of the parties and meaningless toptaniyu.
Limit the number of assistants, give the opportunity to professionally perform their work to the photographer and videographer. Optimal is considered, when on both sides of about 3-5 participants, it does not create a crowd and crush. The most experienced friends should help the bride in ransom, preferably with artistic abilities.
The groom can do some homework to appear fully armed. Funny-looking cribs with cheerful words, dates and a list of home works look ridiculous. You can write a poster: "There is no money. Will be tomorrow. Apply! ยป. You can write songs and poems to the recorder. As a "greenery" it is appropriate to grab parsley, dill, cabbage; useful and lemons.
Friends should learn by heart the scenario of redemption, because monotonous reading on the scribbled paper looks extremely ugly. If they are not prepared, they should speak in their own words, the main thing is to remember the script. If just in case there are hints, then, at least, beautifully decorate them in the form of hearts or flowers. Or near each place reserved for testing, put a beautiful leaflet, where on behalf of the bride will be given tasks.
If suddenly the ransom did not go according to the scenario, do not get lost, improvise on the go. If there is not enough time, the script should be rebuilt and minimized as much as possible. Another mistake is to demand from the bridegroom what exactly he does not have.
If the groom does not want the bride and her girlfriend to be offended, one should not try to circumvent the bride's ransom. Also, do not try to re-play your girlfriends, if they are less prepared than the groom's friends. Completely wild and ugly to break through. Respect each other!
It's up to you: to be or not to be ransomed. Now many original scenarios have been developed, but you can come up with your own. The main thing is mutual consent and common sense.