Sex with a former boyfriend

The woman broke up with the man, with the guy, divorced her husband ... In any case, it's stress for her, even if she was the initiator of the parting. And if the partner offered to part, this is all the more difficult. Regardless of whether there is a sense of freedom, or it is not, but there is emptiness, a woman begins to understand that there is something missing in her life that she would like to have a man with her. As a rule, you just do not want to immediately look for a new lover, and you will not find it so quickly, but nature takes its own way - a woman wants sex. And then often come to mind thoughts about the former guy. However, many women do not even admit to themselves that they still miss their former lover, calling him "just a lover." Sometimes it happens that a woman does not even remember what she broke up with this person. Our memory is designed in such a way that we remember the past mostly good, forgetting the bad, in this case - the disgusting character traits of the former guy. Especially often this happens if a woman is sensitive, strongly experiencing what is happening on the love front, and her soul seeks and yet does not find the heat. However, it is worth considering that this is only your emotions. Remember the reasons for the separation and its negative aspects. Most likely, they are not so insignificant if they lead to a rupture.

Another reason to think again about your ex-boyfriend is memories of having sex with him. Not only is he himself beautiful in bed, he also knows your body, like no other. Well, if you are not a very emotional person and are not afraid that after a sex with him you will be overwhelmed by a wave of memories, you can safely call him. If you have been together for a long time - he really knows best what you need in sex. But be prepared for the fact that further sex your relationship with a former guy in this case will not advance.

Sometimes a woman asks herself such a question: "how could he forget me?". This is elementary jealousy. Do not be jealous of his former boyfriend, do not spend the night thinking about how he has sex with someone else or how he walks with someone in an embrace. If you stopped dealing with him, now this should not concern you. Even if he parted with a new girl and chose you as a spare airfield, think - are you ready to be always spare?

Another option is possible - if you are offered to part, a man can be jealous of you. In this case, his thoughts look like this: "I did not have time to part with me, and now she is being pressed to her, this creature is here." No! You can not allow this! ". You can even flatter the desire of the guy to return everything as it was. But did you really part with him for no reason? And if the reason was, who can guarantee that the very thing that served her will not happen again? It is better to talk to the guy, tell him that your decision to part was hard - then he will finally take care of the arrangement of his personal life and leave you alone.

Thus, sex with a former guy is a dangerous thing. Perhaps, only women with a male mindset, who can perceive what is happening without emotions, only by reason can afford such pleasure. However, the number of such women tends to zero.

However, there is one more case - for example, you broke up by mutual consent. And here's the guy, and you're looking for your true love, do not find, and you realize that in fact you love only him. And he realizes that he really only loved you. In this case, with the former guy, rough sex and violent reconciliation are possible. Or stormy reconciliation and violent sex. And after that, happy mutual love and relationships are the same as they were before parting. However, this happens rarely, and only if both you and n are really ready now to consider the reason for the separation as unimportant, and not just succumbed to passion or emotion.

In other cases, it is better to avoid relationships and sex with a former guy.