Previously, the manifestation of sexual maturity in a teenager is associated with a very large number of psychological reasons. First of all, this desire of teenagers, due to physical closeness, to fill their emotional emptiness, to avoid loneliness, or simply to achieve popularity. The explanation for this can be that each person seeks to be loved, given him due attention and thereby helped to brighten up loneliness. If a teenager does not receive all of the above in his address, then the lack of real feelings from relatives and friends exposes him to this step. The heard words "I love you" from a sexual partner can safely turn all the arguments of healthy meaning. And here, also plus to everything, the feeling that this is how you can gain popularity among your peers, and especially girlfriends and friends. How can you not think about sex, when a friend with disdain tells you that if you did not have sex, you are still just a child. Here is the first obvious reason that increases the craving and maturity of a teenager in this regard.
The second reason is the demonstration of complete independence from their parents. Here you can safely include and the desire of a teenager to become an adult faster and try to "taste" the adult life with all its features. Sexual craving here is that the teenager in the subconscious debugged the fact that not having tried sexual relations, he simply can not enter the path of his personal adult life. In this situation, early puberty brings sexual relations and sex to the first step in the ladder called "adult life".
The third reason for early sexual relations may be a subliminal cry of a teenager for help. This is due to the fact that the child is experiencing serious psychological difficulties in his life. Most often these are problems with parents, classmates, friends. It is for this reason that a teenager chooses sex, as a way of self-realization and removal from these problems. By the way, it is in this situation that adolescents most often start using alcohol, smoking and even trying drugs, as they consider this to be the main way out of the situation. So it is here that you should pay special attention to the child and change your attitude towards him.
The fourth reason, when sexual maturity begins to beat the key, is the most common phenomenon among young people is the satisfaction of one's physical needs and the usual curiosity. Why this reason is the most common among the younger generation, it is not difficult to guess at all. After all, today, absolutely all sources of the mass media boldly and openly treat the topic of sex, praising it as something that must necessarily be tried. And the earlier, the better. Here's to you the result, as a result of which the child aspires as soon as possible to feel on himself "what it is and with what it is eaten."
And the fifth reason is the obtrusive unwillingness of a teenager to lose a person he likes, and thus maintain a relationship with him. In short, a teenager chooses sex in order to keep a person of the opposite sex next to him. Although this does not always work. This often happens with girls who are not self-confident and who are almost constantly tormented by the question of whether they are beautiful enough. In other words, these girls feel a huge complex because of their appearance, they are constantly not happy with it and thus they depress themselves. They think that the only way to keep the guy next to him is sex. And such words as: "If you do not want to be with me - it means that you do not love me" - sound like a bolt from the blue. I think they are familiar to many girls. This is why sexual strife and sex in adolescents occur.
If you, after reading these reasons, have recognized yourself and your problems, think about it, maybe right now it's time to stop and understand yourself. First of all, think about what exactly you expect from such relations and what they will give you. After all, sexual maturity does not always mean that you need to start sex as soon as possible.
Early sexuality of adolescents, namely, the problem of early sexual life is very difficult. That's why you must decide for yourself, as they say, at your own peril and risk. Probably, before you more than once there was a question: "Is it time and is I ready to enter into sexual relations? "Let's think about it together.
First of all, you need to comprehend how long you have been together or how well you know this guy. Whether it is interesting to you together and without sex, whether your friend presses on you, does not manipulate you or makes you feel guilty or obliged to him. Do not you feel uncomfortable or humiliated, if your sexual relations are recognized by others. Do you really want to preserve this relationship and would you stay together if you did not continue to have sex. Are you ready to take responsibility that will help you avoid unwanted pregnancy and protect you from diseases that are sexually transmitted. This all suggests that it will be necessary to constantly use condoms or other contraceptives, which is one of the mandatory foundations of safe sex.
After understanding all these points and giving them the right answers, you should make the right choice and thereby understand, and whether you need to start an early sexual life in general. Remember that early sexual life does not always bear positive consequences.