But how to choose such a romantic gift for her husband? The formula for success is simple: you just need to get distracted from everyday bustle, allocate a little time to think about it, loved one, include imagination and completely forget about doubts.
A gift made by own hands.
What can be more romantic than a hand-made gizmo? A unique, made exclusively for him and with thoughts about him, thought out to suit his character and desires - she will surely be remembered by any man. Of course, courage is needed here. But you can not forget that men are no less sentimental than their second halves. And if this is a husband with whom a considerable segment of the joint way has already been traversed, one can confidently expect that his feelings and desires reflect in many respects the sensations of his beloved wife. After all, the fact that the members of the couple reflect each other has already been scientifically proven.
And the choice of a gift in such a group is really wide. This can be anything that only a woman can do: a romantic picture embroidered in a cross and placed in a beautiful frame, an exquisite figurine from improvised means for a love topic, a flower-shaped ikebana made of heart-shaped, folded in the shape of a heart, or simply a beaded satin pillow. A handkerchief with his initials, a sweater with a confession of love, a still-life of fruit, lined with a romantic pattern or a baked cake with his profile of cream.
A special gift for my husband - a romantic dinner. It does not have to be with candles or light music. Especially if the lover feels uncomfortable with a lack of lighting or is a passionate fan of heavy rock. It is important not to cook dinner and decorate it according to a pattern that is called romantic in society. It is much more important to organize everything so as to awaken awe in his heart. Favorite dishes, unexpectedly decorated, arranged according to a special scheme (which, of course, he will have to explain) and a beautiful wife with the smile of an experienced seductress, all showing her love only to him, is a gift that any man will remember for a long time. Especially if this dinner is executed the way he loves and will pass by the scenario that will bring him the greatest pleasure.
Unexpected romantic gift.
Not necessarily, trying to adjust the gift of her husband to the right way, dip into the whirlpool of stereotyped gizmos. Figurines of cupids, baskets of flowers, postcards with gentle confessions and mittens for two are ideal romantic gifts for women. Men are much more practical. They consider concrete things first from the point of view of utility, and then - of the invested meaning. An exception is a thing made by his own elect. This gift a man in general will not be considered, as something, in everyday life applicable. On the contrary, he will try to protect this object from even a potential threat of wear and will carefully store it closer to the heart.
But buying gifts must certainly be applicable. And if the wife wants her gift to be romantic, then it is enough for her to choose any thing that is really necessary to her husband, and improve it a little, giving her a love luster. So, the first group - any useful items in the form of the heart, Cupid's arrows and others symbol of Her Majesty of Love. Here the choice is huge: for the computer operator - a mouse in the form of a heart, for a banker - a piggy bank-cupid, for the insurer a model of the policy for insuring his heart from breaking up. It is important that a romantic gift is specifically for him and selected in accordance with his interests and hobbies, and even give him the shape of a romantic gizmo you can and yourself.
The second group is thematic shopping gifts. This is a special kind of gift with which one should be more careful. No matter how loyal and calm the chosen one is in his relationship to intimate subjects, such a gift from his wife can push him into unpleasant thoughts. If, for example, he is jealous, a gift from a sex shop can be a reason for him to doubt the faithfulness of his wife. Provided that the man's self-confidence is not enough, he may suspect that he does not quite like the one he loves sexually. Therefore, intending to present to her husband such a gift, it is necessary to prepare and accompanying speech, excluding such misunderstandings. The ideal choice in this respect is a board game of an intimate nature. She will fall in love with any man, because the stronger sex more often than not remain children until the very old age.
Classics of romantic gifts.
Not so long ago, studies were conducted that revealed to the world several interesting details about the perception of husbands of romantic gifts from their beloved wives. A noteworthy feature of this study is that only men aged 25 to 37 years old who have been in a happy marriage for at least 2 years have become its participants, and never, being married, not receiving romantic gifts from loved ones.
It turned out that for them the most touching gift would be three things. First, this is an unexpected journey into the romance of the night city. Even those of the survey participants who consider themselves to be home-grown say that walking along a thought-out woman route with several stops in the most romantic places, which ends with a stormy night of love, for example, in a hotel room or cozy motel, would be a particularly pleasant surprise for them . It's all about the established pattern of development of relations between a man and a woman: he usually invites her to all sorts of institutions - restaurants, cafes, clubs, entertainment complexes. And she only accompanies him to his chosen places. As a result, it's still a mystery for her husband wherever she led him, if the role of the presenter was given to women.
Secondly, married men really do not like it when they are given flowers. More precisely, when they are given by colleagues, acquaintances, friends and their friends. But his wife flowers, especially bright scarlet and especially roses - many men would accept as a declaration of love. They would not brag about this gift in public, but its romance does not in the least reduce it.
Thirdly, chocolate, pastries, bed linen with a romantic pattern - these men are also very fond of. Only not in a beautiful package, with a bow on a box. And already spread out on the bed (if it's linen) or laid out on a platter (delicacy). For them, in this case, it is not the gift itself that is romantic, but its essence.