The rules of etiquette are not that complicated, every self-respecting person should know them. It is always pleasant to look at a man with good manners, he evokes sympathy.
Consider the basic rules of good taste for women. The most important thing in being able to behave correctly is respect for oneself. How much a woman respects herself is easy to understand, suddenly coming to visit her. If the apartment is clean and cozy, the smells of a prepared dinner are heard, light music sounds, and the woman herself is well dressed and smiling, which means that she is a good housewife, watching herself and her surroundings. A woman should love herself, this helps that others will reach out to her.
Being a woman is a great privilege. Smart woman will always look elegant, dress with taste. To be able to use cosmetics. For example, spirits should be used in moderation. A woman should be able to wear jewelry. In no case can not combine gold with tasteless costume jewelry.
Being in society, a woman should be polite and friendly with people. Whether it's a hairdresser, a dentist, a store salesman or a co-worker.
It is very important for a woman to be able to correctly speak, maintain a conversation, express her thoughts. The vocabulary of any self-respecting person should not be limited to general phrases and slang. It impoverishes speech, makes it boring, gray.
During a conversation on the phone with strangers you need to be polite and polite. Call someone only at a time convenient for the person they are talking to. The one who first called, must first finish the conversation.
During the conversation it is very important to listen to the interlocutor to the end, not interrupting, not inserting meaningless phrases, which in conversation are out of place. In a conversation with an unfamiliar person, and with a friend too, do not brag about your successes, the successes of your family or husband. It's worth being modest and talking less about yourself. It will be much better if you ask how things are with the interlocutor, ask about his profession, his family. Then it will be interesting for a person to communicate with you. It is also necessary to avoid common phrases, cliches, beaten proverbs - this indicates a lack of interest and originality. A self-respecting woman will also never tell playful stories, allow herself to be trivial anecdotes or jokes in conversation. It is worth remembering that intrusiveness, familiarity, tactlessness does not contribute to the emergence of respect for you.
You also need to be courteous with the elders. Respect them, do not interrupt in conversation and do not argue with them. Conflict in views always exists, especially between young and older generations, but you can after all talk in the form of a cultural discussion, not a dispute.
Following the rules of good taste, a woman should not smoke at all. But if you still have this bad habit, then you should not smoke at least in a cafe and on the street. Also, you can not keep a cigarette in your mouth during a conversation, when you say hello, dance. You can not smoke at the table while eating.
A woman should be elegant in everything - in clothes, in gestures and behavior. To elegantly sit in the car, you need to sink into the seat, leaving your legs outside, and then turn around and pull them inward. When exiting the car, you first need to lower your legs, keeping your knees together.
It is very important for a woman to be able to smile and laugh correctly. A beautiful, gentle laugh causes the surrounding people to improve their mood and joy. You can not laugh too loudly and for too long. To laugh is only to the place when someone joked, causeless laughter or laughing out of place causes bewilderment and negative impression among others.
Every woman should be able to behave in an awkward situation. If, for example, on a visit you broke a cup or a glass, it is worth immediately apologizing and in the near future to buy a new one. If you accidentally tore up someone else's book, find the same one and return it whole.
For any woman, the reception of guests, this is a very important event, and very responsible. You need to be able to correctly invite, accept and host the guests.
Do not be invited to dinner for cooking dishes on new recipes, or exotic dishes. The experiment may end in failure. It is not necessary to prepare such dishes, which are difficult to submit without the help of other people. Also, according to the rules of etiquette, you can not serve plates on the table with food.
Do not invite people who are much higher than you by social status or intellectual level. Most likely, you will get a refusal. If one of the guests is late for more than 15 minutes, do not force all the guests to wait, sit down at the table.
There are also a number of good-order rules for behavior at the table. You can not eat with your hands on the table. You can not keep your hands on your knees. There is a need with a closed mouth. Also, you should not drink with your mouth full, and before you take a glass, you need to wipe your lips with a napkin. You can not talk loudly and laugh at the table, it's a sign of disrespect and bad parenting.
If you are invited to visit in any case, you can not be late. But it is not too early to come. Following the rules of good tone you need to be polite with the hosts and guests, thank you for invitations. At the end of the reception, you should say a few compliments to the hosts. It will be pleasant for them, and you will have a good impression.
Here are the basic rules of good taste, designed for women. All of them are important and should cover all aspects of life. Signs of good education is the ability to behave, intonation and manner of expression, the ability to dress, even mood, the ability to control oneself. A woman should be able to handle delicately in any circumstances, be polite and polite. And most importantly - to respect yourself and others.
The ability to behave in society will help you in communicating with people, both in everyday life and at work. And this is the key to your success.