In order to help yourself to answer this question, first you need to understand the cause of the situation. It does not happen that the girl did not like anyone at all. There is a buyer for every product. The question is, is this buyer appropriate?
Think, what criteria do you put forward to your chosen one? Of course, every woman has her own ideal. For someone, this knight without fear and reproach, and someone dreams of a bad guy with a clean and vulnerable soul. Whatever it was, everyone knows what they want. But not every girl understands that ideal people do not exist. I can not find a guy, why are they so bad? - Some ladies ask. Is not it worth to think that everything in the world is relative. If a man throws his socks around his house and snores, but still wears his hands, is it worth it to look for the ideal or is it better to love the real?
Princes are only in fairy tales and tearful melodramas. In real life, every man has flaws, as, by the way, and every woman. But we often do not notice our problems, but in others we see every little thing, every mistake. Of course, you should not rush at every counter-cross, but it does not make sense to make too high standards. You can dream about the ideal all your life and stay alone, by passing by just good reliable guys.
The opposite case is when a woman is ready to be with anyone and forgive everything. Men do not need a rag that is on their knees. Such girls do not awaken the instincts of the hunter, and interest quickly disappears. That's why, if you understand that you are ready to carry out everything that a guy will say implicitly, immediately start working on yourself, otherwise you will only be used and repelled.
Still there is a category of women who like to be "their boyfriend" and "brother". These ladies have a lot of friends who love and appreciate them. But only as a friend. The fact is that fraternal relations with men make them forget that you are a girl.
Of course, you can drink beer from your throat and walk in a stretched sports suit with your close friends, but in no case should you behave like this in front of a potential guy. If you initially position yourself as a friend, it is unlikely that something will affect this first impression. That's why, learn to be feminine. If you go on a date or to a company where the object of your attention will be, put on shoes with heels, pick up elegant outfits and do not try to talk about how you went on a weekend with the boys to go fishing and fought with local dumb companions. Even if it's your usual, normal, familiar life, a man should not know about it. He can see in you only a delicate, fragile beautiful flower, and not a cactus that can quickly reassure anyone with the help of bits. Men need to protect and protect their lady. Women are very cunning creatures, after all. That's why, we can skillfully combine a little girl and madam, we just need to try a little.
Another thing to remember is that normal guys like smart women. And if you can tell Monet from Manet, it will certainly help you. You always need to self-educate and develop spiritually. No other woman has been prevented from knowing literature, music, art and other arts. A worthy young man can always start a conversation about something like this, and will be pleasantly surprised if you can easily support him.
Perhaps you think that you do not have a boyfriend, because the appearance is not as perfect as you want. This is another big mistake for women. A man will never love someone who despises himself. They feel our complexes, like dogs fear. That's why, in any case, you can not show dislike for yourself when you're a guy. Instead of telling all men how terrible you are, it's better to just take care of yourself. So you and the self-esteem will increase and the shortcomings will disappear.
Each girl can be made attractive. If you do not like the figure - do aerobics and go for fitness. Do not arrange a haircut - replace the shampoo, make masks, change the haircut, repaint. You think that the person did not come out - experiment with make-up and choose one that will advantageously emphasize your dignity and hide the shortcomings.
You just need to find your zest and learn how to use it. Of course, you have to spend time and money on it, but it's worth it. Even Katya Pushkareva made a pretty pretty lady, but you are better than this heroine. So why not try a little bit, and not become a perfect swan. Remember that your destiny is always only in your hands, and only you can change it to a better or worse side.
In order to increase self-esteem, you can engage in auto-training. There are many different methods. In addition, training can come up with itself. You just need to tell yourself what you can and must believe. External beauty - this is not the key to success for men. In addition to it, you must have faith in yourself and love for yourself as a homeland. If you constantly persuade yourself that you are worthy of love, one day you will be able to believe in it, and then life will begin to improve. The main thing is never to give up and not give up. Success does not come in one day. You need to work on yourself, in order, in the end, to achieve the desired result.
Every woman can like a guy, but not everyone knows how to use their femininity and properly serve themselves. It is because of this that problems arise on the personal front.
Love yourself, appreciate yourself, know how to emphasize virtues and then in your life there will always be one and only one with which you will be insanely happy. And just to say that I can not find someone who will appreciate me, fall in love, be carried in my arms and so on - this is the lot of weak and insecure women who are waiting for happiness from heaven. Which just one day falls on their head. And Heaven is not always generous with such gifts. Sometimes for your happiness you need to struggle for a long time.