In fact, you can find many reasons why a virtual man is afraid of meeting you. And this does not mean that this is your virtual friend, periodically singing songs about that, then you like him immensely, brazenly at the same time lying. Most likely, even on the contrary - although it is impossible to exclude the option with lies. It's hard to dig in the human soul, especially if you know someone only on the lines on the screen. After all, in any case, its virtual image is just an image. Perhaps it is close enough to reality, but it can also be that it is contrived from "A" to "I". In everything, without exception. And this is a good reason for refusing to meet in reality.
For example, Kolya's boy lives somewhere. The usual such a boy, there are not enough stars from the sky, he does not enjoy any special popularity. Simple and modest, maybe a little sympathetic, but kind. And maybe not good - who knows, this Kolya. And who is he on the Internet? Maybe he is no longer Kolya, but a real Nikolai with a gorgeous torso (incidentally, perhaps not even his torso), with an exciting biography and a great sense of humor. You really like him: he is so courteous, romantic - and, it seems, all the girls of the Internet are crying for him. Great guy, this Kolya! And you seem to like him very much. Naturally, the time will come when you decide that it's time for you to "approach". Meet you it's time. First you will humbly wait for his initiative and proposal. But he, for some reason, will go back on track, and point out not to notice your hints. And you'll be puzzled: "Why is this chic virtual man afraid of meeting you, no less than a chic lady?". And you will not know that Kolya is very much excruciated and all glances in the mirror at his teenage pimples, looks dejectedly at the place where there should be a magnificent torso and understands that you will simply poke him with a handbag for such total deception. Therefore, he rests, does not want to get acquainted with you. He says that his car broke down (yes, and those not killed by BMW break down, baby). Or that a blockage at work - a hundred subordinates do not understand anything at all, you have to turn yourself. But he flies to the Canary Islands with his mother - well, to acquire a beautiful tan. And you believe everything, you believe.
In this case, there can be two ways out. Or you become very close virtual friends, discuss everything and everyone, but you still want to see this ideal man (however, like him - you). Or he gets courage and gives you all the destroying truth about himself. And you decide: Do you need a person who started communicating with a lie, a large, convincing lie. I doubt that you will continue this acquaintance - and this is not due to his teenage pimples or the absence of an expensive car. You just do not like liars.
Although this does not mean at all that if a man refuses to meet you, he is necessarily a crooked, oblique and narrow-minded liar. Maybe he just has a lack of communication, a lack of female attention - and he is trying to get virtual "fans". In this case, not necessarily in his life there is no girl. Perhaps he just needs a lot of female attention, as much as possible - and only then does he feel comfortable. He will not meet with you because he simply does not need personal meetings. He lacks "remote", virtual sympathy. He needs you to write him passionate messages about how you are bored, about how wonderful he is and how someone will be lucky. But he hardly wants this to happen. Firstly, it's easy to be an ideal man on the Internet - but in reality it's rather difficult to maintain this image. In the end, you just can understand that he is not so good - and then from your adoration and devotion there will be no trace, and you will come to "saw" him for every convenient occasion. And he does not need such a girl, he needs a "slave" - he's better off finding it on the Internet.
Well, one of the most banal reasons why a virtual man is afraid of meeting is the presence of a girl. You know, such long, serious relationships with a hint of a wedding. They have been dating for a long time and he likes it, sort of like it. But he lacks a romantic drive in life - perhaps their relationship has long been measured and sometimes boring due to a lack of passion. And then the man either goes to the side, or goes to the side on the Internet. He wants flirting, banal light flirting, without encounters and commitments. He wants fantasies, he wants someone to fulfill his desires. And what could be better in this case than the Internet? A lot of girls who also miss and suffer from lack of attention of their men, with pleasure flirt with those who are interesting and cute. You can run into such a man, but he just will not tell you that he has a girlfriend. He, like all previous types of male virtuals, will be justified by deeds, but will not go to a meeting with you.
The last thing I would like to say on this topic is that a man may not want to meet you in real life simply because he does not like you very much. Of course, you can say that you do not want to - let it not communicate at all, but it's not so simple. Perhaps you are interesting to him as a friendly companion. Maybe he just loves to argue with you. But on the whole, your character seems strange to him. He does not understand you and is afraid that he will never understand - and this keeps him from acquaintance in life. After all, he can simply be disappointed in you (like you in it, of course) - and then you will not have each other. Virtually there will not be, really will not - there will be no way. Perhaps he is just afraid of losing a good companion?
In any case, we can not with an accuracy of 100% say that this man does not want to meet with me for this reason, and this one - on the other. We do not know what's in their souls and why they do not want to get acquainted. One thing I want to advise: do not worry. After all, it is not yet known: who was more fortunate that you did not see each other? ..