Perhaps, it is naive to believe that if a man wants only sex, he is in love. All the same, feelings are manifested not only in animal attraction. This, first of all, is the kinship of souls, the community of interests and desires, views and goals. And what does a man who wants from a woman only have sex? Why does he act this way and what motivates his actions and desires? In fact, there may be a variety of answers. In the end, do not assume that the guys are having sex without commitment, just for the sake of sex. Of course, this is their basic desire, but still, in such cases, the guys are guided not only by passion. On the contrary, it can be pain. When ladies love inseparably, they try to forget themselves, but, nevertheless, live with illusions and remain faithful to the one they love. And men try to forget. And sex, often, is an excellent way by which they embody their desires in life. But only, often, everything goes not so easy as we would like. Such a relationship can hurt a girl with whom he shares a bed and lonely nights. Well, when a lady understands and shares a position: sex, just for the sake of sex. It is much worse if she starts to see something special in this, tries to find feelings that, in fact, are completely absent there. Unfortunately or fortunately, sex is, nevertheless, not a panacea for all problems. A man can sleep with a woman who, I'm sorry for being rude, was at hand. But he will still think, and represent exactly the one, his only one, because of which he is so tormented and suffering.
Many women accuse boys of being soulless, because they behave like this. Girls believe that if a man chooses sex for sex, he is not capable of love by definition. Of course, there are individuals who are practically always really interested in carnal pleasures and only. But, despite the generally accepted opinion, such, in fact, a minority. And most men love sleeping with those they love. Or they sleep with someone to forget about those they love. Therefore, if the guy offered only sex, you can be sure that he is in love. But, unfortunately, not at all in you. As it is not sad to admit, you are not for a young man that unique and unique. It's just that you attract him as a woman, and, perhaps, cute as a person and a friend. But, nothing more. If a girl called romantic emotions in a guy, he certainly would not build a relationship on one sex. Despite the fact that there is an opinion that romance has disappeared, in fact, it is completely wrong. Simply, many men are embarrassed to show this side of their nature. But, as you know, love works wonders with all. That is why, it is possible to state with full certainty that a young man who is in love with a girl will put sex in the background.
Of course, he will not cease to be important for men, but, initially, the guy will try to satisfy both your and your spiritual desires. If this does not happen and you are bound only by the bed, then it is necessary to decide what you want from such a relationship. If you just relax, then you should not worry and you can continue such a mutually beneficial "partnership". But in the case when you begin to think about the perspective in which this young man will become your boyfriend or husband, you need to think. The fact is that there is a very meager chance that the guy will still love you. Of course, do not deny that there are all kinds. But, in most cases, such relationships are really limited to only sex. Therefore, if you understand that you fall in love, it's best to stop everything immediately. Yes, it will be difficult for you first time. But, believe me, it's better to destroy such relations on the vine. It is very painful and scary to realize that you love someone who sees in you only a toy for sex, an object, and nothing more. Naturally, everyone chooses his own fate, but still it is far from the best option. Still, in most cases, sex is a continuation of love, and not vice versa. Remember this when the romantic thoughts come to your mind that everything will change and he will love you. Yes, I do not argue if a woman is good at sex, it's important for a man. About such a factor is not fundamental. A loved one can be taught, but an experienced one can not always be loved. Therefore, when trying to please a guy, never make the main emphasis on sex. Still, men still appreciate intelligence, erudition, sense of humor and many other qualities that interesting girls have.
Smart and experienced people say that relationships have never been built on sex, even the best. If the feelings are exhausted and the bed becomes the foundation, soon such couples and marriages break up. Let men and put sex in the first rank of their priorities, but they also want warmth, understanding, support and attention.
Yes, the guys really want love, even if they are diligently refusing this and laughing at such feelings. In fact, they just want to prove each other their strength and hide real emotions. But with a girlfriend, a young man forgets about his masks. He can just hug her and will be already unspeakably happy.
If a man wants only sex, he is in love with a completely different woman. In this you need to admit to yourself and accept. Otherwise, the consequences can be very deplorable. Simply, women do not believe that sex can not cause any romantic feelings. And men are good at just having sex, not thinking about anything and trying to forget about experiences. That's why, you should never entertain yourself with hopes that a sexual partner will become a companion of life. It is best to find another candidate who can give you not only carnal pleasures, but also romantic love.