It's easy and pleasant to communicate with such a girl, in addition, they are ready to forgive such petty pranks as scattered socks and an unwashed cup, but there are also things that they will not tolerate. So, what are we talking about?
Emotional dryness
If a man at such moments is removed, pretends that nothing happens, then such an emotional "biscuit" can forgive far each. Even worse, if in this situation he acts as a provocateur, make any claims, willingly or unwillingly trying to kindle a conflict.
If a man once could not satisfy a woman's desire for emotional support, then there is nothing to count on him. A woman on her own should understand that it is unlikely to be able to correct the situation-the man is so brought up and it does not matter who put his hand to it, the parents or the life itself forced it to turn into a "biscuit".
Of course, there are exceptions. For example, a young man-like man spends time with a girl, but to visit her when she is ill, afraid, because she lives with her parents. Here the woman is already trying to decide whether she needs such a shy cavalier.
Assault
Regardless of whether a man is upset, drank too much, is tired or is in an oppressed mood, he has no right to raise his hand against a woman. And it is not necessary at all to enter into a fight-to break the idyll is capable of a rude push or even insulting words. Naturally, if in the relations such moments skip, it is not possible to call a good pair of such people a good one. Moreover, contrary to popular belief, such remarks are not forgiven by all women. And is there any sense to forgive, if once a rude word, and even more a kick in the course of time, usually turns a man who has not felt repelled, into a tyrant and despot, capable of not only calling his woman, but also causing serious bodily harm.
They do not need a loser
You after all met men who, in all their troubles, blame anyone, but not themselves? And the weather prevents them from doing something, and the boss is to blame for the fact that they did not raise the salary, they did not raise the salary, and the children were not awarded, because they dare not obey him. Naturally, the woman with whom he lives or meets is to blame for some of the sins. Is this kind of behavior worthy of a real man and is it worth it to be humiliated, falling into a constant whining about the injustice of life? It is clear that it is rare for a woman to withstand such a pressure of negativity. And should it?
The losers of the ladies are those who have warmed the cell and do not reveal any desire to change anything in their lives in a better way. Lying on the couch, which has no interesting work, hobbies, personal and career plans, it is difficult for a man to be called a successful male, to whom the best women will be drawn. Such men, who worked for 20 years in one place, non-building plans for the future, sluggishly reacting to attempts to disinhibit them and working just above the minimum wage, can not count on having a dream woman next to them.
Promised? So, do it!
The golden rule, which says that a man should be responsible for his words, works in relationships with women. If the representative of the stronger sex promises his half that they will spend the May holidays under the warm Turkish sun, but until May 1 there is a week, and not only that, there is not even a passport, not even a passport, it is perfectly clear how the woman will feel in this case. The responsible person should understand that if he can not fulfill the promise, then he should not be given.
Moreover, this approach should be traced in relation to any situation. So, if a woman during six months to hear the infamy of nailing a shelf in the bedroom, sooner or later her patience will burst, the imam's woman will have to nail the shelf in an already empty apartment, expecting that one more successful lady will bite her beautiful one.
Of course, if the request can not be executed because of the fore-majeure - this is one thing, but as practice shows, in most cases, the outbreaks are not carried out because of disrespect for the partner or banal laziness. And this is fraught with scandals.
The past, covered in darkness
If in a dashing 90-s man earned money in a lawful way, he has an ex-wife with two children, he used alcohol, tried drugs and decided on non-traditional sexual experiments, it is better to tell this to his current woman. Otherwise it can be done by someone else and it will be difficult to save the relationship.
Of course, you should not lay out all the details of your biography on your first date, but if you decide on serious feelings, the second person should know the details of his partner's past life. Pravdacan also destroy the relationship, but if a woman accepts a man and forgives all past sins, the relationship from this will only benefit. Despite the fact that the all-powerful will end in failure, yet a woman should have a choice and do it for a non-worthy person, because it's not a secret that very few people can improve on the truth - most of us just try to leave unpleasant moments in the past. But no one can guarantee that in a difficult moment the sleeve will not be pulled to a glass or a syringe, but your joint children will not be left and forgotten, like the offspring of a previous marriage.
Hidden children
In general, a man at the age of 40, who has no children, causes suspicion. Usually, if an unmarried specimen meets a woman, then there is still a marriage, and often neodin, in which the children are left. And before building a family with such a man, a woman usually tries in detail to find out what kind of relations her cousin and his children support. So, if a man, having parted with his previous wife, does not forget his own children, takes part in their upbringing, helps them materially, tries to spend as much time with his family as possible, everything is good, you have a worthy person in this regard. But if a man completely ignores his paternal duties, does not express the desire to contact saddles, sees them once a year and is not interested in their problems - it's bad.
Practice shows that it is easier for a woman to love a child than to understand and forgive a man who does not care for own children. Here, in full, the maternal instinct is manifested and the woman's disregard for children is never forgiven.
Fanaticism is a big hindrance
Imagine that you live a usual secular life, occasionally you go to church, put candles, ask God for help. Here you meet a religious man who faithfully observes all the requirements of the Icannons. It would seem that this is bad, because he does not drink or smoke, he likes children, he considers treason to be a terrible sin. But as soon as it comes to arguing, a woman can hardly stand the claims that she does not fully observe a fast post, does not wear a long skirt. Of course, if both of the pair adhere to the same rules of existence, excellent, otherwise any such "right" man will escape.
And this applies not only to religion. A man, an inveterate fisherman, an amateur to attend all football matches, squander money vigrovye machines, it is simply impossible to sustain. To the category of fanatics, one can also include workaholics, whose work occupies the first, second, third and third place in life. So, if a man with an unhealthy attitude to any business is devoted to one lesson, gives him all his time, the strength is identical, even the most patient friend will escape from him.
Unrecognized genius
Some men consider themselves unrecognized. And if a sensible woman comes up with such a subject with unrealized creative plans, she will try with all her might not to let him into the circle of his close acquaintances. And that she still has, after all, having agreed on the relationship with such a "genius" of the muse can quickly turn into an object of ridicule, because of which allegedly not realized creative plans. Moreover, such a woman is accused of not supporting an unrecognized artist who is ready to exist forever at her expense, hiding behind a creative stagnation. Even with a real artist not every woman is able to cope, and a lady who knows herself will forgive and accept the wrong person, and she will refuse at all.
You will be surprised, why in our list not harmful habits, treason, humiliation? It's simple: the situations described above are a consequence of emotional dryness, unrealization, laziness, which we have described as one. Therefore, forgiving a man a serious misconduct, women should understand that what can further become worse.