Why? We will describe this below. What are our reasons for confronting sex, drugs, alcohol and smoking: we are against this, for they lead to debauchery, mental illnesses, as a maximum, and at least to serious problems with health, soul. We are against this, because we know the consequences of the abuse of each of them.
You do not even need to paint long triads about the harm that smoking and alcohol have. Speaking of the latter, it harms not only the health of the user, but also the health of his future children, grandchildren. Alcohol destroys morality, the character of a person. It is proved that alcohol abusers are degrading, their character is changing, and in a sober state they can be simply unbearable for the surrounding people, although they themselves may not notice it. The feelings, morals, sensations, connection with people and reality are destroyed. Man ceases to be himself, besides, he shows how weak he is, becoming dependent on matter. Alcohol soon takes over man, he himself destroys himself from within. Either he is weak morally to refuse, or he just does not care. The same applies to substances such as drugs. It seems to us that they are very strong, and drug addiction is not really widespread. But this is not so, drugs are of different strength and accessibility, drug addiction is omnipresent and people who are sick become more and more. It is regrettable that drugs are taken by people all the younger and younger. Not realizing their actions, wanting to move away from reality or just to get new sensations, adolescents take drugs first weaker, then stronger, without even noticing how soon they become addicted. Life goes awry, moral values go to the background, everything goes second, except for the desire and the need to get a new dose. We are against this, are you?
Smoking is the same drug, only weaker by its action, it seems to us that it conceals less of a threat in itself. But is it? Some people will never try drugs because they are familiar with the power of their action and the instant destruction of the person they carry. But still they choose smoking, which is a weaker drug, and become addicted for life, just destroying themselves from within. Yes, this drug is weaker by its impact and by the force of addiction, if it is tried or used several times. But these "tests" are already a step towards dependence, which lasts for years, and even for the rest of your life. Smoking in fact has many negative consequences. Those who become addicted threaten not only their health, but also the child, the people that surround them, because passive smokers suffer much more from this. The damage to health is incredibly great, but besides this, smoking destroys us both from the inside and outwardly: yellow teeth, yellow and ugly skin, many of its defects multiply, unpleasant odor from the mouth, bruises under the eyes, thin, dry figure, ugly hair . Smoking girl is very difficult to again return to the former status of the standard of beauty. Are you ready for such sacrifices for the sake of drug addiction? Each of these substances does not bring anything good, only destruction. Patients abstract from this information, avoid it. Some are too weak to cope with their desire, dependence. They surround themselves with a wall of stereotypes, excuses. They rummage in their psychology, differences and find something for which they can regret themselves in order to justify their actions. It can be anything. But do not forget that each of us is the master of our own destiny and life. No one but ourselves can help us or decide for us what to do, how to live, against what to fight or what to yield to, making ourselves dependent.
Little on the other hand, we are considering sex, because it does not belong to the former listed groups and the narcotic substance is not. Besides, as far as each of us knows, sex is necessary, in itself it is fine, but for this there are certain conditions. Sex - this is part of the relationship of loving each other, provided that there is a deep spiritual and psychological connection between them. Loving man, we mean what we like his soul, the course of his thoughts and his appearance. If one of these points falls out - this is not love anymore. Having fallen in love with a person, we perceive it entirely, we introduce it into our life, soul, heart. Sex is one of the ways to enjoy bodily, to enjoy the sensation that the person who is dear to us, here, next. In addition, without sex will not have children, and they, as we know, flowers of life, the highest and ultimate goal of relationships in many marriages.
But more and more often the concept of sex is bent, reducing to the way to have fun, no matter how and with whom. What difference does it make who is a partner and what does he feel, most importantly - his own pleasure, the status of a lover or a priestess of love. But is this love? In addition, now more often in a duet are sex and drugs or sex and alcohol - and this is the first step towards the depraved and full sad consequences of life.
We are against such sex, against alcohol, drugs and smoking. But everyone chooses his own way and what he will be and what his goal is.