Sex with a best friend

He was always the most kind and wonderful. In a difficult moment, you could rely on him. You in detail told him about sex with your next boyfriend. When he met, he kissed you tenderly, but chastely on the cheek. It's all right. You and could not come to the conclusion that your best friend is just an ordinary man, and you are a weak woman.


I'm not guilty

Of course, everything happened absolutely by accident. Sex with a friend was not part of your plan. In addition, the horror, you have changed your loved one. You are now worried, worried, even tormented. And what will happen next? Goosebumps. No, you had, of course, casual connections, but then it was about sex with a stranger. And then your sexual partner became a close, dear and, as it ironically did not sound, a loved one. So what's the reason for what happened?

We'll sit in a row,

And everything happened simply and corny. You two were given a responsible assignment to come up with a scenario for the new year. You met, somewhere secluded, sat close to each other, consulted, argued, and then accidentally your body touched. Electric current, pheromones ... in short, our friends across the ocean call it - the basic instinct.

Consider another option. You are going to your mother's house, and your friend has kindly offered to give you a lift. It's getting dark. While the road lay in the woods, the machine broke, as luck would have it. You took your hands and walked. Fearfully? Under each tree is a flock of hungry beasts, and under each bush - a maniac? Involuntarily eyes look for a place to hide and lie down in case of danger. Well, they lay down. And there were no wolves, and maniacs did not run. How did you know that the danger and the feeling of fear are in themselves the strongest sexual stimulus.

And in the morning they woke up

Do not rush to sprinkle your head with ashes. Man is a biological animal. Civilization, upbringing, morality are understandable, but what to do if all this collapsed before the impact of the irresistible, animal forces of Mother Nature. Believe me, no one is immune from this.

Already everything happened and can not be corrected. Of course, your relationship, your friendship will not be the same, no matter how much you want it. But also to shout, that all was gone, it is not necessary. In general, discard emotions, they are useless in this situation. And the words spoken under the influence of such emotions can lead to consequences worse than your own actions. In the end, from sex you were fine, and disassembly can spoil both the mood and the relationship. The best doctors in this situation are time and philosophical attitude to what happened. Try until everything is settled, to limit meetings with each other under any pretext.

This never happens again

In your company, when people are friends with families, it can be extremely difficult to hide the smallest changes in behavior. And the more you try to behave as if nothing happened, the more absurd you look. The main difficulty is to behave as naturally as possible. And the main danger is that the intimacy does not happen again. A few months will pass, the guilt will gradually become blunted, relations will enter into the normal course. Here the danger of relapse will become very real. You quarrel with your boyfriend, partner, husband. You will be alone on a day off. You again will not have anyone to take to the dacha. Remember that the next sex will not be accidental. This will be the beginning of a new love relationship. Decide, maybe you both want it, but friendship always bothered you? And then - an honest pirk and a wedding ...