When the relationship between a guy and a girl becomes serious enough, the moment of getting to know the parents comes. From how you initially begin to build relationships with your mom and dad's lover, your further relationships directly depend. That's why you need to know how to build relationships with the guy's parents.
Find common ground
In order to determine how to build relationships with the guy's parents, first you need to find out what kind of family he has. You want to like the mother and father of the guy, so you need to first know who they are and what they are addicted to. In order to build a normal relationship, any people should have common tastes and interests. Here for this and ask the guy that they love their dad and mom, who they are by profession, what are they interested in, what do they do in their spare time. If you understand that your interests coincide in some way with theirs, it's just fine. Then, in communication with parents, be sure, but casually, remember, for example, that you, like the mother of a young man doing kanzashi flowers, or you were taken out of your childhood by a hunt and you love this particular sport, just like and your lover's daddy.
If you have absolutely no common interests with the guy's parents, do not overdo and invent something. To build a relationship, many begin to create imaginary points of contact. And this is fundamentally wrong. After all, sooner or later you will have to admit that you are not at all fond of embroidering with a cross or collecting rare species of spiders. And then all that could already be built can be destroyed, since the parents of the young person will find you a liar who in any way tried to get into trust.
Be a princess, but do not overdo it.
Communicating with parents, try to behave culturally and feministly. But in this case, too, do not overplay. You do not have to sit like you've swallowed a pillar, behaving coyly and too tightly. Naturally, at first everyone is hard with strangers who you want to please. However, if you see that parents are simple people, sociable, easily go to contact, you can also be liberated and communicate peacefully with them. Of course, you should not allow yourself to superfluous, go joking, laugh too loudly. Still, they should see that next to their son is a girl, and not a street kid.
But what should you do if you see that the parents of a young person are too tight and correct, and you are completely different? In this case, decide for yourself whether you can always play before them a real lady. If so, then behave yourself in the best way, the way they want and expect. But if you understand that you can hardly stand even once, do not torment yourself and play. Be as you are, and there time will tell if they will accept you or not. In this case, it is not always worth hoping for a good relationship with the parents. But on the other hand, you do not have to play the audience and constantly torment yourself.
Do not say bad about your beloved
In order to build a normal relationship with the parents of a young man, it is never worth discussing their son with them and exposing the guy in a negative light. Even if Mom and Dad say that their son is wrong and does wrong in certain situations, all the same, try not to comment on his actions and certainly not to expose the young man in a negative light. Remember that all parents love "for prevention", talk about that their children do something wrong, but they never want to hear it from other people.
In communication with the young man's parents, be sufficiently reserved and correct. Remember that you are not peers, so many stories you can tell friends and girlfriends, parents should not be heard. Even if they are cheerful and modern people, it's one thing to hear something about strangers and quite another - about the girl of her son. Do not forget that all dads and moms consider their sons princes who deserve real princesses.