" And here he is, a stranger, dark-haired, so passionate and gentle taking me on a posh black limousine to an expensive hotel. We go into the room and ... "- my erotic fantasy was cut short by a sudden awakening. Fantasy flew like a reality in a sweet dream. Why would a man and a woman fantasize their sex and not realize it in real life?
"Do you have erotic fantasies?" - not everyone will openly answer this question. Everything is connected with the fact that our erotic fantasies are often much bolder than those whose realization we allow ourselves in real life.
Erotic fantasies of men and women: what they are, they are something different or the difference is due only to the temperament and character of a particular person? Frankly, it all depends on the temperament, personality, education, appearance, success and failure on sexual grounds.
Consider the main types of erotic fantasies.
1. Rough Sex
Why is this necessary? From a psychological point of view, a person, not important a man or a woman, does not receive psychological detente in real life. I will give an example. A person in a managerial position, constantly in power in real life, often manifests masochistic tendencies in intimate life. And, on the contrary, one who does not manage to "command and rule" in everyday life, often seeks to manifest elements of sadism in bed. But! It is important to know that an excessive hobby for sadomasochistic "experiments" can simply indicate mental disorders, which, surely, requires treatment.
2. Threesomes
Here, the options are different: either a man dreams of spending a night not with one but with two women, or gambling to cause a feeling of "jealousy or rivalry" and to share a mistress with another man. The variant "on the contrary" can be considered for a woman. Some women just excite the presence of a rival in bed.
Only now I want to say that this sexual desire often remains only at the level of fantasy, since not every man will risk coping with two women or not everyone can tell a partner about their desires. And why destroy the relationship? ..
3. Sex in an unusual situation
What causes passion to make love in a crowded place, or in a compartment of a train, on a beach, a hayloft, on a billiard table and - go for a fantasy ... But, the moral foundations do not allow us or not the environment you are dreaming about.
The reason for the desire for "exotic" sexual relations is the daily routine of everyday life. After all, life and monotony gradually dull relations, and therefore - and sexual desire. There is nothing strange and wrong in such a kind of sexual fantasies and can not be. And you do not have to deny yourself the opportunity to get an orgasm on the bridge over the river or at night in the park, the main thing is to have everything an acceptable reasonable limit.
4. Sex with a stranger (stranger)
It seems that for an unmarried woman or an unmarried man and there are no barriers to this kind of love affair. And, if it is a little easier for men in this plan, then the woman has a little more fears in this direction.
"What if he's a maniac, murderer or rapist? Is he sick with something infectious? "- the most frightening thing that can flash in your head. As a result, a kind of "stop" is triggered, not everyone can step through.
5. Anal sex
Well, what do men lack? Most often, men want this kind of sex, and often this desire remains only a desire because of the taboo on the part of his lover. Why such a sex? If the desire is mutual, then what is and not - bravely forward! If a man insists, but you do not want to, then you need to culturally explain to him about the possible consequences, both for him and for you. It would not hurt to find out what exactly provokes this desire from the partner, and, perhaps, to solve the problem by bilateral benefit.
6. Desire to rape or be raped
This sex is the opposite of rough sex. Of course, when this is not real rape, but faked, then this scene only instills excitement into intimate relations and even excites. Do you want this kind of sex? Why not play it! The main thing is not to bend the stick.
The theory and variants of erotic fantasies, both male and female, can be repeated to infinity. How many people - so many different desires to show their sexuality, because human imagination is unlimited in all understandings.
Are the erotic fantasies of men different from similar women's fantasies? Yes, but not always. Of course, a man will not imagine himself a princess or a prostitute, more often men's desires are more mundane and ordinary. But there are men who want bright and colorful sex, and for this you need to have a rich imagination ...
In fact, many fantasies are more than real. That's just their implementation for some reason never comes. It's hard to say why people are afraid or do not want to reveal to their partner the riddle of their secret desires. Probably, it's much easier, you do not need to work on your relationship. Although, true lovers allow themselves much and much. The main thing, very bold desires (sex with bandaged eyes or with tied hands) "dedicate" to a person you trust, because you never know who the mysterious stranger or stranger is ...
Sexuality of man, multifaceted and diverse, generates various erotic fantasies in men and women. How many of them and what they you know only you. And have you ever thought that fantasies can become a reality? Perhaps in your erotic fantasies more permissible for you and your partner than for the illicit, and everything can be realized.
Well, how, are you ready now to share your secret desires with your loved one? ..