Different temperaments
It's no secret that men and women have completely different attitudes toward sex, different temperaments, different needs. Sexologists and psychologists say that in men, as in women, the sexual temperament can be different. There are three types of temperaments: high, medium and moderate. High sexual temperament is more common in men than in women, this is due to differences in the hormonal system. But the average and moderate occurs almost equally, both in men and in women.
The characteristics of each temperament determine the need for sex. For example, the higher it is, the more often a man or woman needs sexual intimacy. To distinguish a person with this temperament can be by many signs. One of them - a living temper, ease in making new acquaintances, readiness for tactile sensations. But these criteria are not a guarantee that you are a person with inexhaustible sexual capabilities.
Nevertheless, it is very important to find a partner with whom you can satisfy your needs without causing discomfort to him.
Different needs
As a rule, the need for sex in the beginning of a man's relationship is higher. The more a man is younger, the more often and sharper he experiences sexual attraction. Over time, the ardor for a constant partner if it does not cool, then it becomes moderate. A man can love and desire a woman for years, but he seems to calm down, is satisfied with more rare sexual contacts, which does not always affect the quality of sex.
The woman, on the contrary, with the beginning of relations only begins to show interest in sexual life. Even very temperamental people can say that over time, sex in a couple becomes more interesting, and the need for it is more frequent.
On this basis, it is always better for women to look for a man with a stronger sexual temperament than her own. So, a woman with a temperamental temperament, a man with a medium and high. This will help them maintain harmony in sex for many years.
Secrets of sexual happiness
Sexual temperament, of course, is important. But work on relationships is also important. For example, it is necessary to choose the optimal rhythm of sexual life for yourself. Each couple is individual, some need frequent sexual contacts, some have enough sex once or twice a week or even a month. Clear rules and rules are not and can not be.
But there are things that affect the quality of sexual life, for example, long breaks between sexual contacts are contraindicated to absolutely everyone. Irregular sexual life has a bad effect on the potency of men and women. The older the couple, the higher the risk of completely losing the opportunity to engage in full-fledged sex or to enjoy it if you allow for large breaks in sexual relations.
It is worth knowing that the sex life of a couple can not be equally equal all the time. Sometimes passion weakens, then flares up with renewed vigor. There are many reasons for this - fatigue, stress, bad mood, problems, depression. A man does not necessarily lose interest in a partner in time, but he can not wish for it as much as he did 10 or 20 years ago. Women often grow cold with their spouse when they fall in love. To prevent this, you need a lot of care for each other, a willingness to make concessions and a willingness to discuss problems.
The sexual temperament of spouses is a criterion by which you can determine how compatible they are. But do not think that differences in sexual needs are an insurmountable obstacle to happiness. Love often works wonders. In addition, the temperament changes with time - so, in a woman can wake up passionate nature, and a man, on the contrary, can moderate his ardor. If the difficulties in intimate life seem too serious, then experts will come to help - urologists, gynecologists, psychologists and sexologists. Almost every couple has a chance to get perfect sexual relations, if you try a little.