The amount of time that is necessary for sexual intercourse is quite individual for each of us. There may be a mass. But if a woman discusses a great sex - talking about the incredible foreplay, about a long erotic massage. And in rare cases, one of them can talk about not very long sex, but which has happened in an unusual place. In men, everything is a little different. For them, the duration of the sexual act is not particularly important, it is important for them that this happens more often. Noah, according to sexologists, good sex is when both partners get a satisfaction. In this time, which is necessary to get an orgasm, is important. But what about the fact that the mechanisms for excitation are completely different? In men, excitation is by nature easier and much faster. But women need a little more time for excitement. We are unlikely to just look at the man's bare torso or handsome man's hands. In order to have a pair of sexual harmony partners should take care of the pleasure of each other.
What do women need?
Sexual reactions of women are closely connected with emotions. Nature is so programmed that we want a man, when we try to feel a love or love for him. For women, sex is a certain love experience. and the ability to excite quite strongly depends on the feelings that we feel for a man at the moment. If you are anxious or angry with your partner, you will not experience attraction until you become angry with him. This applies even to small domestic squabbles. For a woman to enjoy sex, she needs a sense of security, the feeling that she is loved and desired. A sense of trust is important, it is necessary to be confident in his feelings and in himself.
But what if a woman is just not tuned to sex? It's easy for a man to fix this. On average, to excite all the senses and awaken the desire, a woman needs from 20 to 30 minutes of preliminary caresses. Nestoit underestimates the prelude. After all, 70% of women reach orgasm directly during prelude. And only the remaining 30% can test it during sexual intercourse.
Many of the men do not attach any importance to the preliminary tenderness. Such men do not think about the partner at all. Imbe quickly to the point to go. In this case, try to explain to the partner the importance of foreplay. Prelude can even be turned into a game of "who will last longer". The partner needs to caress you for so long and so long, so long as you do not ask him to go to the main activities.
Libido and cycle
Libido means that in women, sexual attraction depends on hormones. It can intensify, it can weaken in accordance with the stages of the menstrual cycle. Sexual attraction in a woman begins to intensify a couple of days before and during ovulation. This is the stage of the cycle when the woman's body is ready for fertilization. At this time, it is easy enough to become pregnant, as well as the possibility to reach orgasm faster. In this phase, the woman is easily excitable and the body will respond even to insignificantly toils. And orgasm in this phase will be brighter and stronger. In this period it is better to spend time with your mate. In the bedroom during this period, unforgettable moments are guaranteed. After this phase, the female libido decreases. Av end of the cycle increases tension and sex at this point you just do not want. But try to succumb to your man's desire. It is likely that you will enjoy. Well and during an intima your organism develops a hormone which is capable to struggle with PMS.
What do men need?
Unlike women, in order to reach an orgasm man you need no more than 3 minutes. Yes, and they want it more often than we do. And for excitement they do not necessarily have deep feelings for the partner. Men always and everywhere, they want even when they are very tired or angry. Well, aseks, held after the quarrel, for them is not at all a problem. In men, emotions do not actually affect sexual desire. Emotions with sex are almost unrelated. If women love with ears, men have more developed a stimulus. Often it is enough to just eroticly undress an anteroom. And in a minute he will be in full readiness. Do not be shy at the intimate moment and do not turn off the light. Another difference between men is that they culminate in each of the sexual acts. Therefore, they like it quickly, but often.
It is not necessary for men to prelude, tender words and affection. Undoubtedly, your gentle gestures are pleasant to him, but he can do without them. Most of all it will excite how you react to his touch and affection. Do not worry about that you need more time to achieve orgasm. Expectation will only add passion. Some of the men do not resort to preliminaries. Just do not want to get too excited. In fact then it will be hard enough to delay the culmination a little. They perfectly understand that in the beginning it is necessary to please the partner. In such cases, you can take the initiative in your hands. You can caress it until it comes to an end. And after that, so he took a little breath, he can caress. In a few minutes he will rest a bit and will be ready for a new act. Willows at this time, too, will enjoy and such a welcome foreplay. He will not be so tense and will be able to please you.
Duration of sexual intercourse
The duration of the sexual intercourse is very individual, but depends on the temperament of the partners. While there is no clear connection with the strength of pleasure and the duration of sexual intercourse. The main thing is for both partners to be well.
For some reason, it is commonly believed that good sex - this is a long sex. Prolonged sexual intercourse is both good and bad. For a woman, it may not be very pleasant. In addition, if you do this in one posture for more than 10 minutes - the process ceases to excite. In the vagina appears dryness, and in this case, sex becomes painful. Just hint that you want to change the posture. And do not underestimate fast sex. It often happens that fast sex is much more fun and passion. For this, you need to experience a momentary attraction at the same time to both partners. And do not forget the diversity. Learn about the sexual fantasies of your partner, do not be afraid to discuss them.