It's no secret that sex is an important part of our daily life - it's a huge amount of unforgettable new experiences. However, what kind of sex and pleasure you can talk about, if more and more often there are such phrases: "Headache, offended, tired, perenervnichala, etc.". And after just a couple of years, the system of conjugal sex becomes so predictable (took a shower and made love), that simply from it there is nowhere to go. Out of the habitual monotonous current, getting out of everyday life and not letting you swallow this most beautiful feeling is a completely solvable task.
"Fresh stream" of your sexual relations - how to make it
To ensure that your marriage bed does not remain bored with idle, you will only need to connect your feminine fantasy, stand the limits of decency, boldly starting the era of experiments. Of course, a "fresh air" in sexual relations will certainly require patience, perseverance, however it is worth it.
Begin by frankly expressing your wishes to each other. After all, to express about not ironed shirt or about tasteless cutlets are always strong, and sit down to discuss sexual otnoshniya, as nistranno, for some reason lacks the courage and time. Just words are not associated with a suggestive sentence, dries up in the mouth, and the corresponding words simply "fly out" from the head. In these matters, you need to have patience and tact, because the questions are: "Why do you turn your back on the wall before you finish it?" Or "Why do we have to get so fast all day, but would we care?" Nothing in addition to irritability, as well as resentment. And since this issue is very delicate, it is here chiefly "to break wood", not to offend a partner. However, this does not mean that the talk "about sex" in general should not begin.
Sex, like mutual reproaches, resentment, promotes rapprochement, as well as reconciliation of spouses. With the help of the family, many family problems are solved. It is not for nothing that the old wisdom says that "the darlings are being scolded - they are only milling", because after the quarrel, as a rule, "an act of reconciliation" comes. Only in the past, receiving an unforgettable pleasure from intimacy, you begin to understand the triviality of the problem that has quarreled with you.
Quite often they complain about sex, which before predictability became predictable, when you know exactly everything in advance - words, movements, and this your sex life leads to boredom. But try to introduce fresh life into the intimate life, without waiting for the established place and hour.
For example, if the husband, after returning from work, starts his sexual lashes right from the door, do not reason him with words to wait for the evening, baths, etc. After all, casual sex really gives a lot of passion, tenderness, warmth, unforgettable impressions.
It is also worth a few words to give the appearance. For example, nourishing facial masks or heat-curling on the head in no way contribute to thoughts of sex. On the contrary, new underwear, sexy stockings and high-heeled shoes will always do your thing with a man. However, here it is necessary to adhere to the sense of proportion, so as not to frighten your spouse, meeting the threshold in an inexplicable face coloring, mini-skirt, boots, boots.
However, posing in bed in the role of a submissive slave, is also an interesting option. Some of their own omnipotence greatly excites. Use in your arsenal of helplessness and obedience, and your man will have nothing left, as soon as he takes the initiative into his own hands. What is sought and sought.
Also you can go on a more daring path. Choose beautifully-colored underwear, prepare pleasant streaming music, arrange your muzhustrichtiz. Try to agree before that, you can only watch and do not touch, and this man is very stimulating.
Indeed, those couples who are already happy for many years of married life simply do not know what it means to bore all the sexual relations. And you, too, will achieve this, if you do not begin to be afraid to experiment and take the initiative, embodying your most cherished dreams in sexual life. Only then will you plunge into that sweet whirlpool, into which you plunged headlong into the beginning of your relationship.