Solo in life

We often fear - changes, death, heights, enclosed spaces, depth, loneliness. Every fear has a completely scientific explanation, but the fear of being alone is very difficult to explain. We come to this world in proud solitude and we leave it alone, no matter how many people around us at that moment. But we can live and feel happy only in the company of our kind. But there are advantages in loneliness.


Mono performance in different scenarios.
People left alone are deeply mistaken when they say that they are completely alone in the world. It's especially silly to say this if you live in a big city. You are surrounded by a lot of things that can disperse sadness, cheer up and take your free time. You can go to the cinema and watch your favorite movie, you can dine in a cozy restaurant, go shopping or even go to the club. Yes, you do not have a pair, but you just have to pay attention to how many people surround you, wherever you are, how thoughts of total loneliness instantly evaporate. Is it possible to feel lonely in a city where thousands of people around the clock hurry on their business, have fun, work, fuss and rush?
Therefore, when you are experiencing another bout of fear, go to the streets. Believe me, you will get tired very quickly from the crowd, and loneliness will seem to you a way out of vanity.

One of the most common fears is the fear of going on vacation in proud solitude. Of course, the company is more fun, but also to spend a few days without friends, colleagues and loved ones have their considerable advantages. You can get enough sleep, and no one can stop you. You can bring your thoughts and feelings in order, and no one will have a chance to spoil your mood. You can choose excursions according to your ideas about the beautiful, you can not be ashamed of what you prefer to lie on the beach from morning till night and not to be interested in religious monuments. In any case, there will be nobody to condemn you. In addition, a vacation is an opportunity to have as many passionate fleeting novels that even the most intimate ones do not recognize, and you will not be ashamed and do not have to justify why you spent the night with the first person you met.

Most of all we are frightened by lonely evenings at home. What do loners do in the evenings? Watching boring programs on TV and go to bed at a time when other lucky people are just beginning to entertain. But there are a lot of single people and far from all of them like this life. It turns out that you can entertain yourself at home. For example, you can start a repair. In this case, the occupation for the coming months will be provided to you - until you get bored or until the money runs out. If the repair is not suitable as entertainment, connect to the Internet. The global network will not give you a chance to be bored. Here you can communicate, learn something new, watch movies, read books and useful articles. While you have the happiness to live without a couple, you can learn a language, get a new profession or acquire a new hobby. And you can cook new dishes for yourself daily, improving in the art of cooking.

Unpaired life.
For some reason, it is believed that loneliness for a woman is the absence of a permanent man in her life. Perhaps this is so. But do the millions of women who are indifferent to men feel happy? Can you say about a woman whose husband comes home after midnight, that she is not alone? Do men brighten up leisure time, which change, are carried away by football and computer more than anything else in the world? Are all their numerous shortcomings worth the dubious advantages in the form of joint dinners and rare trips to a cafe or restaurant?
Until you are in a pair - you are left to yourself. You and only you control your life, take a bathroom for hours without fear of hearing reproaches. You can afford not to get out of bed all weekend, wander around the house with a green mask of algae on your face, in your old pajamas and watch your favorite movies, not eternal races for the ball. While in your life there is no man, you are free to attend all interesting parties to you, invite your friends, flirt, receive flowers and not be afraid to bring them home. If you think about it, life without a man is much calmer and even more pleasant than with him.

We all sympathize with lonely people, and, perhaps, absolutely in vain? Suddenly the fate of an old maid, a convinced bachelor is not so terrible, as it seems to us? What if these people consciously chose such a life and are quite happy with it? In any case, in our time, loneliness can not be total. Each of us has quite a few chances to make friends, meet a loved one. It happens that life gives us respites. It would be foolish not to use them. If you are alone now, think, are you really unhappy? Look around, then you will understand that there are many interesting people around who love you, and the temporary absence of a man is just a preparation for a new dizzying novel, not a verdict.