Speeddating: a decisive step towards a new acquaintance

Modern life is boiling, bubbling and does not allow you to stop. This is the era of the latest technology, fast speeds and lightning fast information. We eat fast food, we wear clothes in the style of fast fashion and get acquainted with the help of speed dating. The meaning of such an event is fast visits, put on the "conveyor belt".


Speeddating is gaining popularity, many want to try this kind of entertainment and are willing to pay for it. Registration at a party costs from 1,5 to 5 thousand rubles, drinking and food at your expense, so this occupation is not cheap. The organizers try to create the most pleasant atmosphere at the event. Even if you do not like anyone, you will spend an unforgettable evening in a great restaurant or in a cafe with a cozy atmosphere.

Of course, some girls might think that they have already lived to such a stage of loneliness that they are ready to give money in order to get acquainted with the guys. But do not give up on your intentions - you can seek happiness everywhere and everywhere, and no one should blame you for this. Relax, enjoy the process of dating and coquetry. And, in the end, at least pay for the investment in full.

It's not a fact that you will find your love on such dates and get married quickly, but you can just make useful acquaintances, meet people you like again, and there maybe again. The result of speeddating is not unique and any turn of events is possible. Perhaps a mini-date, which you do not really like, will eventually grow into true love.

A few tips for those who decided on such entertainment

First, it is better to immediately tune into a positive wave and a desire to meet or at least have a good evening. Minimum - you can make new acquaintances and useful links, and the maximum - to meet a person who will become your boyfriend, and later a husband.

Secondly, go to the event alone, without friends and girlfriends, so there is really more chance to get acquainted, because you have no one to discuss men in between acquaintances. Sometimes, such discussions can lead to scaring away potential gentlemen who would like to meet you. And, of course, it is likely that you will like the same young man, and you will hardly want to share his attention.

Five minutes decide everything

In five minutes you need to present yourself as effectively as possible, so prepare. Think in advance that you can tell about yourself, about your hobbies, thoughts, something that will set you apart from the crowd and what you will remember for men. Try to find common ground with the guy you are getting to know. But remember that this is not an interview, and the presentation of the facts of your biography is unlikely to catch someone. But also mysteriously silent is also not worth it - choose the golden mean and do not forget to listen to your opponent. Many men are very trivial and ask questions trite. But do not be disappointed in such a man right away, give him a chance, because he certainly worries. It's not easy to impress at once a dozen girls, there are people who find it difficult to get acquainted with one. But that does not mean that he is not like that.

Smile, for the first thing you pay attention to is your open smile. Make your smile a token, a highlight. Forget about the troubles and problems that you have. Be here and now, and try to be yourself and behave naturally. Listen to your interlocutor and you will succeed.

Firms organizing spiddeiting parties, it is better to look on the Internet, at the same time to read reviews of people who have already tried this entertainment on themselves. Do not be afraid that the organizers will ask you to take a short interview. Inquiries about incomes will not be asked from you, only a detailed account of yourself, interests, occupations, hobbies, work. Such careful selection of participants is done in order to find suitable people, to provide security measures, so that you have all the chances to meet a really worthy and interesting person, not a guy from the gateway.