What to do when you disagree with your loved one

To solve this problem at least once in a life it was necessary to each woman. Of course the situation is far from the most pleasant. Some people, after they diverge from their loved one, go into a deep depression, some start drinking, and some start sleeping with every man they meet. But none of these methods will help to forget the one for which you lived and made plans for further family life.

So what to do when you miss your favorite? I want to give you some advice on this. Of course - this is not an instruction for action, but simply solutions to the problem.

Option one: you love him and give the other is not going to. First, calm down, and think what you could do wrong. I assure, each of us in something "bends the stick", especially at the moment when it starts to think (mistakenly) that the beloved will tolerate everything, whatever you do. Have you considered it? Do you understand what you are doing wrong? Urgently begin work on your behavior. Next, take time to visit the beauty salon, make a new hairstyle, the problem is not solved, but the mood will raise! And I advise you simply, as if by accident, appears in those places (cafe or disco), which usually goes your beloved. But do not try to start asking him why he left you. Say hello to him and sit at another table, behave, as if he does not interest you at all. You can flirt with other guys, and if he still loves you, then he will definitely come back to you.

Option two: your beloved has gone to another and seems to love her. In this situation, you must find out whether he loves your rival or is just another hobby, because all men are polygamous in nature and conquer other "females" in their blood. If he does not like her, you have a chance (see option one), but in case he really loves her, I advise you just to step back and not to be humiliated. I understand that when you love, you immediately forget for pride and self-respect. Of course, you will experience some time, and may even suffer, but time heals. I did not invent this, it's already a time-tested tool, so when you broke up with your lover, just wait.

Option three: maybe you really are, and do not like. After all, and such, perhaps, think, maybe you just got used to the fact that he is near you. In this case, you do not need to advise anything. You yourself very quickly forget it and find a new boyfriend. Which is sure to be smarter and prettier than before, and most importantly, will love you, despite all the whims! And the fact that you have finally broken up with him will help start a new and happy life.

Option four: you love him, you want, you want to return, but too proud to be humiliated before him. This option can only be a really strong girl. I can not even imagine how strong and tough it must be to keep myself in hand and not getting the former calls with pleas for forgiveness. Here it is very difficult to advise, but it is possible. So what to do from the very beginning? First of all, change something in your appearance: a hair style or style in clothes, or you can just buy yourself a chic dress. Will help to distract from the thought that you are a victim. Immerse yourself in your head to work or study. And you can solve two problems at the same time, pull up your knowledge and get good grades (or achieve an increase in work). He will see what a clever and beautiful woman has lost, repents and will come to you with a request to forgive him.

But in fact, lovely women and girls, if you are abandoned or split up with your beloved, do not think that your life has ended here. And when one door is closed, then others are necessarily opened. There will be more than one romance and one of them will necessarily end in the Registry. And do not forget that in the world only two men are worth what you would worry about because of them - it's father and son!