British scientists conducted research, and found that the entire family budget is usually controlled by his wife. It not only decides where to live, what purchases to make, but also chooses which clothes the husband will wear and even what kind of TV show to watch. In the near future, namely, in 2020, the global economy is likely to be managed by a woman. But does this make a woman happy? What is the woman's happiness? Here is what the well-known psychologist Dale Carnegie thinks about man's desires in general: "Almost all normal adult people want:
1. Health and safety.
2. Food.
3. Sleep.
4. Money and what they get.
5. Confidence in your future.
6. Sexual pleasure.
7. Welfare for your children.
8. Feelings of its significance. "
Let's consider all on points. Of course, happiness lies in health. Can you imagine a smiling person with a sick tooth? A woman especially, it is necessary, because it holds the whole house. Do you remember or imagine what will happen if your mother or wife gets to the hospital? Crumpled shirts, the last pair of clean sock, lunch and dinner from sandwiches ... Enumerating is endless. So it is with security. You can not live "long and happy" if you are always afraid of something. The presence of food and sleep requires our body, it's physiology. Money is also a very important issue. Very often, especially recently, women are accused of self-interest. I do not justify everyone, but if you consider this question in relation to the whole of society, then it should be so. A woman is primarily a mother, she cares about that her children grow up in decent conditions. This is dictated not only by logic, but also by intuition, nature. In some species of penguins, the female chooses the male, who was able to collect the largest pile of stones. And to blame her for gain?
To live with dignity, without fear, it is necessary to make plans for the future. Who will build a house if he knows that in a year he will fall under the ground? Sexual satisfaction is one of the needs of a person. We understand, if a person wants to eat well or sleep until day 12. So why be surprised that he also wants to get sexual pleasure. It's no secret that many believe that true female happiness lies in children. And indeed it is.
The happiness of motherhood makes a woman REAL woman, with a capital letter. A huge tragedy, both for the girl herself and her surroundings, if for some reason she could not satisfy her maternal instinct. Now, however, many women knowingly do not want to give birth to children, explaining this by moving up the career ladder or caring for a figure. But, the time will come, and they will repent of their choice, and, unfortunately, it will be too late to change anything. Another thing is if the birth of the child is postponed for a short time, so that the young family has the opportunity to stand up. The planned kid will be doubly happy, because his appearance was born and prepared for him. And the last point is the consciousness of one's own significance.
No man can feel happy if he feels that he is an empty place, a zero without a wand. Why do we follow fashion, why we buy expensive cars? For comfort? But boots are also comfortable, do you often go to them? Any machine can deliver you wherever you want. But if you are offered a beautiful and impractical, but elegant, or convenient, but simple, to choose, for free, which you take? Almost all actions in this world are made in order to emphasize its significance. What will be the real woman's happiness is for you, of course, only you can understand. And for me it's a caring husband, a child, a favorite job and talking with your best friend.