What are our girls made of?
Girls usually have less weight and height at birth than boys, they are slowly gaining weight. It is believed that girls develop speech faster, most practical skills are learned, and this is true.
The fact is that from birth to a certain age the work of the left hemisphere of the brain (which is responsible for the developed speech) in girls is more intense than the work of the right. That is why they are easier to contact, they are easier to delve into the new, it is easier to explain.
It can be argued that girls are more obedient and careful than boys. However, this behavior has its own explanation - they really want to get approval. Boys, on the contrary, more often do "for evil" or "in spite of". To this they are bound by the domination of the right hemisphere of the brain, which is responsible for emotions.
In the transition years, the situation is radically changing. The boys, who drove everyone crazy with their terrible behavior, endure the shift of the predominance of one hemisphere over another is easier, but girls often have a protest. The former modest begin to turn into "informal", the honors pupils become three-year-olds, and so on.
Daddy's daughter or mom's ponytail?
Very often the popes think that the education of girls is only a maternal duty. How can I have my dad play with my daughter in dolls or tie my bows? But this is not necessary! A truly caring father will always find something to do with his daughter. The main thing is to pay attention to the child.
The role of the father, as a just and good defender, is also important for the girl to have a correct understanding of the family. In the future, her husband, he will subconsciously be compared with his father.
Already with age, the boy will begin to draw more to his father. And for the girl the main example will always be mom. Daughters with rapture play with my mother's things, makeup, learn to help around the house, play with dolls, trying on the role of mother. A kind and fair father is needed for many purposes, but for the education of femininity, a girl can not do without a mother!
Types of girls' characters
Girls are different. They differ in temperament, appearance, behavior. And education, of course, has a huge impact on the self-esteem and behavior of the child. Do not go against the nature of your child and do not break his temper. Just find an approach to it and unobtrusively direct it in the right direction.
Education and types of character - things inseparable. By the model of behavior, we can distinguish the main types of girls' characters:
"A princess"
This is the most modern type. Parental age is increasing, children in the family often appear when the mother is around or for 30 years. If a woman is born a daughter, then she tries to pamper as much as possible. They are rewarded with all-most. Therefore, in the family where such a "princess" is brought up, the last word in any case is for the child. As soon as something is not over it, immediately begins to be capricious and hysterical.
In such girls, the main value is beautiful appearance, they communicate only by orders and ultimatum. If your child is suitable for this description - you need to take action urgently! Firstly, a girl princess, who is accustomed only to demand, it will not be easy to live in an adult world, where not everyone will try to please her. Who will like this treatment? Secondly, do not allow external beauty to become paramount for a baby. After all, in the age of transition, girls often turn into "nasty duckling" for a while. This will be a terrible blow for someone for whom the beauty is external above all else. Thirdly, the girl must understand that the princess is not a beautiful and elegant doll. This is a person, above all a kind, fair, caring and accurate.
"Ugly duck"
This is an example of a completely different tale. If the girl does not look like a sleek doll, this does not entitle her parents to reproach her for this! The complex of "ugly duckling" has always been laid down since childhood (mostly by the mother).
If in an early childhood a girl constantly hears rough reviews or ridicule about her appearance, she forms an inferiority complex. It's impossible to fix it later! Such a girl in the future will face a lot of problems, she is unlikely to be happy in her personal life.
Pay attention to how many examples of famous women in the world, which could be called frank ugly. However, they have achieved success in life, they are happy in love and self-sufficient. The secret is that their self-esteem is not understated since childhood! A confident person always achieves success. Understand this yourself, and then let your daughter understand.
"Peppy is a long stocking"
These are extremely active children. This is an example of a girl-boy, with eternally broken knees and a dirty face. "Hooligan! Drachunya! The little girl! Are girls behaving this way? !! "- if such words you constantly repeat your daughter, then this is a child of this type.
Remember, you can not change a hyperactive child! Better direct her energy into a useful channel. More moving games, a circle for preschool children, a sports section. There is no sense in driving such a girl to a music school, better give her a lesson where you can move a lot, splashing energy.
"Cinderella"
Ironically, in our time there are still such girls. Usually they are from a large family, where you need to constantly help your mother in the household. Material unbalance entails severe upbringing. Sometimes children help voluntarily, but in your family it turns for a toddler in duty - you need to change something.
It is necessary to accustom the child to work, of course, but in all things the measure is important. If you raise your daughter Cinderella, be prepared for the fact that she will work for her life for someone, do not arrange a personal life, she will not become truly happy. But there will always be a man who quickly realizes that the girl is a full-time employee and will sit on her neck!