Whether this has been done or is yet to be done, the important thing is that this will have to live the whole subsequent life and maybe even look for a piece of your happiness and coziness. Therefore, we will stop the attention of the aftermath of the abortion, in particular, what influence it exerts on the woman's napsihik.
Postabortny syndrome. What is it?
No one can give an exact definition. Strange as it may seem, he is still considered a real mental diagnosis. However, in two words, this syndrome can be described as follows. PAS is a group of mental illnesses and consequences that occur after an abortion.
Despite the fact that this treatment does not have an official character, the overwhelming majority of women face this syndrome. The syndrome can manifest itself immediately after the abortion, and may wait a while and accidentally come on. Completely eliminated can in two months, and maybe stay for life.
The impact of abortion napsihiku
Undoubtedly, the psyche of a woman is the character, feelings and emotions inherent in it. In other words, the basis of the woman's behavior. Abortion, in turn, causes severe stress to the body. Let's try to figure out what the woman feels after the abortion. Of course, this applies not to all women, but to the overwhelming majority.
1. Emptiness inside, grief, loss
Such feelings arise after the loss of a loved one. Noabort is no different from death. The only difference is that the woman makes a conscious choice in favor of his assumption. This is one of the most powerful influences on the woman's psyche, but the most important of them are still waiting for us ahead.
2. Feelings of guilt
After the abortion, the woman remains for herself. It is everywhere beginning to pursue a sense of guilt, from at least four sides.
The first - imposed by society, condemning the opinion, terrible pictures on the walls of the hospital and heart-rending words on them. Accidental patients of the hospital who, as it were, accidentally heard a conversation about abortion. Numerous video clips on the Internet and a lot of articles on this topic. Misunderstanding of the doctors.
The second is the woman herself. We often feel guilty when we do not know how to correctly respond to the blows of fate. Often a woman begins to realize that all the reasons for which she abandoned the child are just excuses and the real reason is all one and she is known to everyone.
A child who was never born. No matter how incomplete the fruit is denied inside, a woman always understands and feels that this is her child. Yetot child so wanted to appear in the world, but, alas, he was not allowed to do it.
Man. Even being in this state, the woman is fully aware. She is responsible for what happened and worries about her future relationship, which, most likely, will go to rubble. And besides the man there is still a lot of relatives, acquaintances, friends, colleagues who knew how to act in this situation, but you did not listen to them.
3. Panic
What is the threat of abortion? What will happen now? Will I have children in the future? What will become my life? Will everyone be discussing me and remembering with impartial words?
As a rule, no one can give you an answer - there is no abortion. Therefore, when you have decided on this, in the future you are waited by the summed up uncertainty. And in reality, everything looks like this: a bad physical condition, constant stress and conscience. How to live on, what to do with all the problems that have fallen on my head, what will happen to my family, all these questions are attached to the complex of survivors after abortion.
4. Helplessness
Abortion is made and not return back. Thoughts: "better I acted differently", will pursue you quite a long time. No one will say how to get out of depression and cope with the terrible state. Your man does not always know how to behave properly. And the society at any convenient opportunity hints that it was necessary to think earlier, instead of building now iridescent prospects for the future.
5. Psychological and physical aversion to a man
Pregnancy, which is not on time fell on the head-a service not only for women, but for her men. In order to somehow remove the responsibility for herself, the woman begins to raise her voice to the man, wanting to transfer the burden to his shoulders, and often meets a negative reaction to his behavior. Alas, most couples after abortion never find a common language.
Women argue that even after all the obstacles are overcome, it is very difficult for them to have sex with a man. And if sex still happens, the process of intimacy does not give any pleasure.
6. Callousness, intolerance, frequent aggression
After an abortion, a woman begins to get annoyed by people and things happening around her. Often, obsessive thoughts do not leave her for a long time. Many women admit that after they gave birth to the second child, instead of joy and love, they are awakened by hostility and aggression towards the child.
Constant change of mood, depression, conflicts, insomnia, changes in consciousness - all these mental consequences, give rise to physiological changes as a result of abortion.