The right relationship in the family. Form of behavior

Family is the most valuable thing that we can have. My grandmother also said that every woman needs a man, and vice versa. We all often heard phrases such as "marriages are made in heaven," so why have so many divorces recently, why do children grow up in single-parent families? The answer is obvious: we can not understand each other. "Why did not you have a little divorce before?" You ask.
Yes, all because women have closed their eyes to a lot and fulfilled what men demanded from them. Times have changed, and a completely new one - "equality" - has replaced the old form of relations. And we, all brought up on the stories and experiences of our parents, can not adapt to the new conditions of life. You can, of course, read books on the family psychology of sheets for as long as two hundred, you can listen to a girlfriend with her vision of the world or again her mother, and it's better to try to figure it out, first of all in yourself, and then in the person who goes with you through life.

We learn grammar at school, but nobody teaches us how to build personal relationships with a beloved man. It is very important to never forget to pay attention to him, to be interested in what he likes. You will say: "Why should I be interested, I already know everything, have I learned everything during the years of my life together?" You will be wrong, because men, like all people, develop and with the course of life their interests change. Your companion will be pleased to realize that his thoughts and interests are not indifferent to you. In return, you will receive sincerity and participation from your man. He will begin to take an interest in your life, thereby you will strengthen the interconnection and interdependence in your relationship. Just do not wait for candy candy in return. Your impulses should be sincere or at least look like that.

Our life consists of many small things. They are deposited in memory and at moments when you feel lonely, they float up, giving us a kind of recharge. We begin to discuss this with our men and again these invisible strings of affection become shorter and we are getting closer. You can never tell your half about how bad he is. Such topics should have exhausted themselves before marriage or before marriage. Who wants to give warmth, care and affection when he is met from the threshold with the words: "This is not what you did and why you went there." You should give the man a feeling that his home is a fortress where he will always be understood and supported. Only goodness is answered with kindness. It is very important to talk with each other. We need to discuss all aspects of our life.

It is necessary to stipulate intimate parties that require changes. The openness of women in intimate matters raises particular gratitude. After all, with the passage of time, the flame of passion gradually fades away and it is very important to support it in yourself and in your man. Just the same, trust and understanding help to maintain your relations, which are, and develop them further. If you feel that you are beginning to lose your connection, it is important to change your attitude to what you are doing and to what surrounds you in general, to feel strong and of course, to dedicate your man to what is happening. You will feel support, because you are the most dear and close person for him. If you are upset by some of your spouse's actions, you do not need to shout, prove, or beat dishes. It is enough to express your displeasure in a mild form. If you do not receive an adequate answer, justification or a form of decision, you just have to be offended! A loving man, or at least appreciating your warm relations, in order not to disturb the balance in the family, will necessarily compromise. The family is built on mutual concessions. Otherwise, soon you will be left alone and there will be a lot of time to think about what you did wrong. Family is a small world in which there are rules and in which outsiders can not be allowed. Take care of each other and be happy!