Why does not a man offer a close relationship? Let's try to figure it out.
Close relations for him are comparable with the camera in the castle IF. He values his freedom very much and is not ready to go to extreme measures if there is a possibility to lose it. The fact that you went to many infringements: stopped going to clubs with friends, rarely meet with friends - this is for him has no role. Believe me, the fact that we cut our freedom for them is not even appreciated by them. But, here he is, afraid that he will also be bound hand and foot. In this situation, it is necessary to explain to your man that your plan does not include putting him on a chain beside him. After all, it is on trust that the strongest relations are maintained.
Still, one of the most important factors affecting men is that all his friends are free and not burdened by relationships. Having entered into a close and serious relationship with you, he can become a black sheep for friends. For a man, there is nothing more terrible than to seem somehow different for his friends. If your man is so dependent on the surrounding opinion, then you will either have to endure, or look for a new companion, who will be more independent in his decisions.
All men want to have a girl. But, most of them understand that the girl is extra costs. The material defect of a man often becomes an obstacle between loving hearts. In this case, you either need to convince your elect that money does not play a significant role for you. But, if you still think that you are worthy of beautiful courtships and expensive gifts, then it's worth not to break the heart of a young man and realize your mercantile plans elsewhere.
He does not have his own living space, in which he could invite you. Agree that living with parents is not a test for the faint-hearted, even if the parents are angels.
You are always capricious, and not one living person can cope with your requests. Of course, you do not notice these shortcomings in yourself. And you only notice that your man pushes you off with all hands and feet. Naturally, for you in this situation there is only one culprit - it's HE! But, it's worth to look at your behavior or, if it's hard, ask your man for advice. If it's dear to you, then it's worth going to the world and trying to change yourself. In this way, you will bring happiness to your union.
You're too intrusive. You always say that you want to have children, a family. And, in general, you dream of marriage and the sooner, the better. Honey, remember that the most expensive for a man? Freedom. Do not impose your opinion on him. Over time, he will want the same. And, believe me, if he takes this decision on his own, he will appreciate your relationship even more.
Maybe the reason that your man repels you is his age? He is too young, perhaps he still wants to take a walk and have fun, and the relationship with the girl is not yet part of his plans.
Men who in the past already had experience of serious relationships, note the sad, the most difficult to go to a new close relationship. They have to learn again to trust, to love. They constantly feel that every subsequent relationship will develop according to the old scheme and that all the girls are fashioned from the same test. It is not necessary to press and, moreover, to argue with such a man. Here the most ideal option - sincerity, warmth, love and affection. And, your iceberg, will eventually wander before you. And, when this happens, when he believes you - you will become for him a model, which he will carry in his arms.
Dear girls, with any problem in the relationship, it is worth looking at the root! Do not try to change and break men - this is not a grateful and useless occupation.