Most often this type of sex is practiced by adolescents and "young unmarried" in the age of up to 25 years, that is, in other words, "adventurers". For 85% of those who have experienced threesomes, the experience will not be repeated, that is, they have tried and forgotten, "not mine." An interesting fact is that only a negligible percentage of regular practitioners of the Lyamur de Trois will lead a family and will have children. Half of these people by the age of forty will be carriers of dangerous, incurable, sexually transmitted diseases. This is the statistics of European countries. It is worthwhile to present the statistics typical for our latitudes ...
Who is the third?
Sex is not a four-sex, where you can change partners and all on equal terms. There are either two men and one woman, or two women and one man. Most often there is a second combination. Men, of course, prefer two women, women choose a woman, based on the preference of a man, or they themselves prefer to see the second woman in bed, as if more pleasure.
Third extra or third spare?
Like a twist, but the sexual contact itself involves two people, and the third, it turns out, does not participate in the immediate process. In order to satisfy everyone, it is necessary for a man to have the strength and sexual potential to meet two partners at the same time, or vice versa, to satisfy a woman immediately two men. Wishing variety in sexual relations, you need to pre-determine your sexual potential.
Even worse, when the sextet chooses a pair of three, who wants to make a "twist" in their relationship. Choose a woman's wishes for a woman, and in the process the wife or girl remains practically unprotected, as a man is addicted to a new partner. You can think about how the relationship between men and women will change after that.
Pros of sex three together
Sexual maturation has its positive aspects. For young and unmarried, who have not yet met their beloved, this is a kind of sexual experience. For a man and a woman who has a long relationship, this is a new, unusual, vivid sexual experience. It is important that all participants agree, and do not make this radiant person, if only he was well. More often than not, this is sex of non-guilty, that is, pleasure for the sake of pleasure. If it's a married couple, then there's no question of any jealousy. In other words, you should stimulate, and not annoy, your partner's sexual contact with another partner.
Minuses of sex three together
It's always a risk. Often, a couple who experienced sex three together, the relationship is not for the better. Jealousy, resentment, disappointment - these are fellow travelers who can settle in the head of one of the partners, most often a woman. Therefore, the best option is to experience sex with three unfamiliar people, with whom no serious relationship or everything should be based on reciprocity, and not the pleasure of one from partners.
The risk of picking up the sexually transmitted disease, as a result of sex, the three of them significantly increases.
Statistics say that after a similar sexual experience, couples sooner or later break up. As a nikruti, threesome, this is not a way to strengthen relationships.
Search for the third
So, you decided to have sex threesome. Whom to choose? Best of all, either a forum or an agency, no one knows you, you do not know anyone. The main thing is not to become a victim of a fraudster, because you invite a completely unfamiliar person to your house. Inviting friends in bed, you can stumble upon another "underwater reef": your partner may not like sex three together, but that's to continue the sexual relationship on the side of the conscientious will be even very interesting. Undermining the relationship - definitely ...
Rules of unusual relationships
So, you and your partner made a mutual decision to bring a third to your bed. Then take the trouble to specify all the details so that there are no misunderstandings, and accept some rules.
- Decide on the gender of the third partner, so that no one nebylo hurt.
- Speak all the moments "before, during and after": behavior, poses, caresses, safety.
- No friends. Sex and friendship are opposite concepts, letting your friend go to bed, you will most likely lose it forever as a friend.
- No jealousy! Perception of the sexual act of his partner with another person, besides seeing how he gets this pleasure, is a very serious factor. Therefore, initially seriously appreciated the attitude to this, so that later it would not be necessary to place all the dots over the "and".
- If the third is a woman, tune in to get the maximum pleasure, be ready for the love of Leis- bian.
And a little bit about safety
The third bed is always a great risk to pick up something venereal. Therefore, security must be at the highest level. It is important here to be able to think with your head during the pleasure. Sex three creates additional conditions to catch diseases that are sexually transmitted. For this reason, do not allow the partner to enter into you in a condom used in sex with another partner. It is very important to have an additional "briefing" and a stock of condoms themselves.
Well and at last. If you are calm about the experiments in sex, you are interested, then discard the stereotypes and dare. It is only necessary to remember that having sex together is a very important decision, do not take it in a drunk state or in a fit of emotion.