Men they are: it hurts - they suffer, are upset - do not cry, they miss - they are silent. Women, being emotional beings, express their emotions openly and eloquently. They find it difficult to understand why feelings should be hushed up if the heart is torn from love to pieces? But the men are silent. They miss, but they are silent. By what signs can you guess that a man is not indifferent and bored?
- Call me. Men who consider the phone their continuation, this is not necessary to ask. They call constantly, even if they do not call the real reason for the call. No, the man does not miss! In any case, he does not say it directly. He just wants to know every half hour what you do? Where were you? Who did you meet? Do you know that there is a rain outside, under the noise of which the heart is always sad? Do you remember the smell of those chrysanthemums that he gave you on the first date? How can you not remember? So, it's time to meet to get them again as a gift!
- Attack with messages. Many men, because of their very "weird" logic, it is easier to communicate with a beloved woman through correspondence, rather than a live conversation. This man is easy to several times an hour to scribble you sms. And even if his grammar is frankly lame, and the messages do not carry a large semantic load, the main thing for him is to be always in touch with you. Some men after correspondence try to hide the true feelings, which in the conversation will give out the timbre of voice, awkward pauses, stuttering or not in the subject blurted out stupidity. In correspondence with this it is easier - there is time to think everything over, check the text for errors and hide between the lines a subtle romantic hint.
- In you, as a mirror I look. A man who misses you is always not enough. He can not see enough of you. He has little meetings or friendly meetings, so he hangs in social networks on your pages. He follows your life through online publications, likes photos, and comes up with original comments, perhaps with a subtext in which you have to grasp his longing for you. Also to understand that a man is bored, you can, if he asks you to send you his Selfie, for example, with the wish of good night or good morning. He wants to know how your life goes, in minutes and hours when he is not around, and he can not see you.
- A gift for memory. If you "settled" in a man's head, he will necessarily want to carry with him not only your image, but also a real reminder of you. For example, he can ask for some of your personal gizmos as a gift, a soft toy or a trinket bought especially for him. If a man and your heart is nice, do not refuse him in this small request. Make this gift a mascot. Bribe him a few days with yourself, give your energy and love. So he will have a power that turns any thing into an amulet.
- Mr. Bond. An active and enterprising man will not be bored, just sighing over your photo or remembering how you were smiling at a holiday with a mutual friend. He will act in search of ways to approach you. If you notice his secret espionage for you (see the traces of his frequent visits on your Internet pages, hear from common acquaintances that he asked about you, etc.), there is no doubt he thinks about you, and if he does not miss him yet , then a couple of your smiles or other signs of attention, and he will be bored! If you have not yet decided whether you need a man, then think quickly. Initiative men are now parsed as hot pies on a frosty day.
- What a meeting! This phrase you can hear from a man with whom suspiciously often began to "accidentally" intersect in different places. He appears at a party at your favorite club, he writes to the gym, which you also visit, drives one with you transport to work, and finally you meet him in a company of mutual friends. Coincidence? Hardly. A man who does not just miss, but seeks the realization of his feelings, will not sit idly by. He understands that he himself is a blacksmith of his own happiness, and is looking for an opportunity to come across your eyes so often that you think about it, or maybe it's fate?
- Hidden care. Of course, if a man is bored and frankly admits this, then his care will be frank. But a man who tries to secretly experience anguish can also be incognito and caring - from his favorite colors (sweets, warm scarf, mittens, etc.), donated anonymously to the car under the windows of a secret admirer who is going through so that his beloved does not I experienced discomfort from movement in public transport. In our society, this is called male action. Otherwise, what's the point of quietly missing a woman and not giving way to that creative feeling that it can and should do happier?
- Claims with resentment. An indifferent man has no complaints and resentments. He has nothing to do with you at all. And if your admirer is offended, resentful, jealous (even more so, with an uncharacteristic force of emotions), you know - he is breathing unevenly to you. "Why do not you answer the calls?", "Why are there so many men around you?" "Why can not you meet me today?" "You're just an unfeeling ice!", Etc. The man misses, thinks about you and desires response, even if it shows you feelings with a minus sign. So remember, if you respond to such claims in an unrestrained, rude and emotional way, for him it can also mean only one thing - you are not indifferent to him, because an indifferent woman will not waste her energy on an empty space.
- A meeting without separation. If a man has grown to you with all his heart, he already can not bear the thought that all your meetings have a moment of separation. Therefore, not having time to say goodbye to you after the first date, he already plans the second. And in general, all your meetings are like a mini-rehearsal for the future life together: he introduces you to friends and parents, shows his apartment, asks how you would equip the kitchen, bedroom, and nursery. It leads you to the decision not to part anymore, because you are already very tired of missing you.