Today, a civil marriage is very common among numerous young couples. So they check their relationship before getting married officially. During this time they are trying to lead a common household and share life. Usually supporters of civil marriages are men. Women want a normal, formalized family, they want to be confident in the future. After all, when unofficial relations do not know how the relationship between a young couple will develop after the birth of a child, there is a possibility that a woman can stay alone with her child and without any material assistance. Whereas with a registered marriage it is enough to show a marriage certificate and those who have less wages or who have not even worked will have the right to material assistance if there are common children or for health reasons.
Is it possible to consider a civil marriage to be full? It depends on which side to look at. If from the side of the law, then yes, it is considered as such. As if the couple split, no family property will be shared. But although in this case, more recently, in Russia there was such a service as a family contract. In a family contract, you can specify which responsibilities will be assigned to the couple in the case of the birth of the child, how all the property will be distributed when the couple leaves, and everything you want yourself. The family contract comes into force after notarization by a notary. This type of contract came to us from Western European countries, but in Russia it is not very widespread yet, we can even say that only a few pairs used this service when they were in a civil marriage.
If you look at the situation from a moral point of view? Most men consider themselves freer in such relationships, but does it change something when they change? Unless you the fact of informal relations will ease the pain !? Of course not! You also live on one living space, sleep in one bed, do household chores and much more you do as an ordinary family. Hence, from this side the marriage can be considered complete.
Statistics show that most men who are in a civil marriage consider themselves not married, and most women on the contrary, consider themselves married. It is also believed that men think less about procreation than women, but this is not so. In official relations, a man also has the instinct of leaving offspring. But in a civil marriage, more often than not, they do not even think about children.
Psychologists say that in a civil marriage, couples quarrel more than in an official marriage. The reason for this is a woman. Since she wants stability, she wants a beautiful proposal of the hand and heart, she wants a lush white dress and a wedding. And because of her status, she specifically provokes the conflict, long arguing on these topics. So all the same, a civil marriage is considered inferior?
Living in a civil marriage, you can learn some advantages: you do not need to spend money on a wedding, rings, honeymoon, dress. And the "spouses" of obligations are less than each other than in an official marriage.
Well, when a couple, for some reason can not now formalize their relationship and want to live a little without painting, look at yourself in family life, test yourself, streamline your sex life. Well, if you live in a civil marriage and this desire is not reciprocal, it will not bring anything except discontent, quarrels and eternal clarification of the relationship.
Well think, do you need this, do you need such "checks". After all, our grandparents as it did without it and lived all quite amicably and happily.