Can a woman seek a man?

The question is whether a woman can achieve a man, at one time hardly could be called actual. Indeed, before a woman to seek a man was ashamed, indecent, and, moreover, irrelevant. In the old days, it was announced that it was a man who could seek a woman, and after her it was right to choose him or not. Now the woman and the man in many respects have exchanged roles ...

In the modern world, everything has changed. Therefore, we often have to ask ourselves, can a woman achieve a man? Although it is better to ask, is it worth it to achieve?

Of course, a woman can do much for the sake of love. But, does she need such love?

In general, why do women want to achieve men? The reason for this is not only love, as one might think. In fact, there are many factors that affect the fact that a woman begins to behave in this way.

The first is a sporting interest. Some ladies like to test themselves and prove to themselves that they can get anyone. But this does not always look good in the eyes of a man. The fact is that some girls begin to apply all possible methods to seek the location of the object of their interests. For example, almost every woman knows that any man is always interested in sex. Therefore, some ladies simply seduce guys by any methods. The course is alcohol, depraved behavior and much more. Naturally, the guys are not iron creatures, so, often, they are led to such tricks. But the fact is that such a victory is very doubtful. As you know, it is impossible to build relationships on one sex and fall in love with oneself, only thanks to this, too. Therefore, when a woman believes that she has achieved a man, he is sure that he used it and does not take it to something serious.

Also, a woman can get a guy out of a sense of revenge. They can revenge their former loved ones or other girls. In this case, the lady will not do without sex. Most likely, she will try to really fall in love with the guy in himself, to assert himself, prove something or cause pain. In this case, a woman's victory over a man is quite possible, but it often turns into pain and tears. The fact is that in such situations, the offended and the offended must remain. First, this may be the guy who is being sought. The girl is working so hard to make her love her, that the young man is really starting to feel. But only a woman realizes that she can not love. In the end, she either returns to the former, or simply breaks off relations with those who do not need her.

Revenge of other girls is also not very good. If a woman does this to someone's boyfriend, then the broken heart is guaranteed. If she avenges her love, then, again, a young man can suffer.

But, frequent are those cases when women achieve those whom they love. These stories are also rather tragic, as men consider them friends or do not pay attention. If you are in this situation, you need to remember that you will not force a love, and all efforts will not succeed. In addition, so you can lose a good friend or be humiliated.

But if you still decided to choose a similar path, remember that, most likely, you will have a feeling that a person allows himself to love. You will realize that it was you who initiated the relationship and are afraid that he will leave you.

But, nevertheless, if you need this person, then try to act correctly. First, as already mentioned above, one man can not keep one. Therefore, you do not need to be available. Sexual - yes. But only not accessible. The guy should understand that he will not be able to use you when he wants. You also have pride and self-esteem. But at the same time you should look and behave in such a way that he wants you. Therefore, never forget about femininity and various tricks. Flirt with him, interest your behavior. By the way, it's worth noting immediately that you can not do this when a guy knows that you love him. In a similar situation, everything has to be done on the contrary. Remaining sexual and feminine, you must show him a chill. Let him see that he is not the center of the universe for you, and you may well be interested in other guys. Never let him use yourself and do not run to help, only he will call. Stop being a faithful and loyal friend. Of course, you can not change the behavior too sharply, otherwise he will suspect something is amiss. Just restrain yourself. Do not laugh at every joke, do not catch any of his words and do not look with enamored eyes. Often this works. The guy shows the instinct of ownership. He's used to the fact that you belong to him. And then suddenly he realizes that the girl who was ready for everything for him, stopped to notice him. Then, perhaps, he will start to get you. Sometimes this behavior causes the man to admit that he had feelings for you, but he did not want to realize it. In any case, even if it becomes yours, do not let yourself relax. He must forget that you are ready for everything, otherwise a man will never appreciate a woman as much as she needs it.

If he did not notice you, try to become the girl he needs. Through acquaintances and friends, and also watching him, find out what he likes in women, and create such an image. In no case do not hang around his neck, but be the one who is so necessary to him. But, choosing a similar path, do not forget that you now have to play this role all your life. And it's very difficult to live in a mask. But, if you are so precious and such happiness - dare.

But still, no matter how the morals and morals of society have changed, the strongest couples are those in which men seek women. Only in the case when a guy loves you the way you are and does not make you play a role, the girl feels calm. Therefore, before you strive, think: is it worth it all life to call and seek someone's love, or is it better to wait and meet someone who will seek you himself, because he will fall in love.