Do not waste time quarreling and scandals , try to give in to each other in different situations. And you will see that life will go its own way, only much easier and better.
Appreciate and take care of the most important components of a good relationship. Love, respect, understanding. These feelings do not emerge from nowhere. They must be grown. If you feel that you are needed and this person is not indifferent to you, then you must learn the three main principles. If a person is dear and relations with him, then there will be a desire, grow and improve. Ability to listen and hear will avoid many problems. If you notice that it is bad for the native person, try to find out the reason for this state, and then, necessarily together, find a way out of the situation. Life is short, and as often happens, when you decide to tell someone important words, forgive, love, wait, it's too late, change something or prove it. Phrases become empty. Do not miss the moment, do not be afraid to compromise. And then you'll never be late.
In relations with children, everything is not as simple as it seems at first glance. You will think that it can be simpler. Children should obey their parents in everything and everything will be fine. After all, mom and dad know better and wish only happiness to their child. Many do not take into account the fact that children are not yet formed personalities, but already with their ambitions, desires and character. To form a strong person, it is simply necessary to give the right of choice, a certain degree of freedom. Everyone has the right to make a mistake, the main thing is to then realize and correct it in time. Since childhood, children are taught to be accountable, but of course not everyone understands and accepts this feeling. Parent's task, explain and teach the correct interpretation of this complex quality. As in the future, it will be easier for a child to manifest himself in life and work. Responsibility for the family, children, relatives and friends will no longer seem like an unbearable burden, but will be taken for granted.
In adolescence, it is especially difficult to find a common language. As children feel that they are already adults and are able to make their own decisions. In addition, this age is characterized by maximalism and too extraneous influence on the psyche of a young organism. Teenagers are worried about everything, from someone else's opinion, to some small things in clothes. The main thing is not to press too much and understand that a transitional age is a difficult stage in a person's life. Support for a loved one is very important. If the child seeks help or asks advice, help, but do not impose your opinion and do not make decisions for it. This will alienate and the teenager will no longer want to help you.
Parental love is sometimes too intrusive, the cause is jealousy, the desire to protect your child, selfishness. But try to release the chick from the nest in time, if, of course, you want to raise a decent, independent person. Cross over your "I". Give yourself the opportunity to think independently, make mistakes, make decisions. Believe me, this brings together more than persuasion and imposing. Love each other, try to understand, and then everything will be wonderful for you.