A survey was conducted, according to which more than half of the women answered the question: "What do we need for happiness?" So: happiness is when the employer increases your wages and from this the life of these women becomes more pleasant and happy. One-third of the country's women believe that if they had a figure close to the ideal, they would have become much happier. Two women out of five answered that happiness in their own home outside the city and the same number of women believe that happiness can not be without mutual love. Also, many women confessed that family life is more important than a guarantee of old age than passionate sex, and the purchase of a gorgeous dress is more important to them than enjoying a magnificent sunset with her husband. It turns out that money brings us happiness?
Perhaps this is true, because having money a person gets a sense of confidence in the future. Although if you ask your friends and acquaintances and remember the happy moments, then a small part of them is connected with money. These people will tell you about such happy moments in their life as the first kiss, the birth of a child, an unforgettable vacation in the Canaries. Simply, you at one point realized that life is gorgeous - because of some small detail. Hence we can conclude that one should live in the present and not deny yourself such pleasant little things, live in pleasure, and not chase the world-wide accomplishment of the future.
There is an opinion that the fewer goals you set in life, the more happiness you have. In conditions of competitive struggle, the one who is faster, stronger, smarter, slimmer, smarter and the one who goes to the gym more often survives. Because of this constant struggle, scientists concluded that from this chase the women become less happy. You can receive several times more money than your girlfriends, but you can never become rich to the level of the oligarch's wife and this makes a woman depressed.
If you constantly set the sky-high goals and remain unhappy with the results, then the woman will not be able to feel happy. This zeal for its goals is of course a wonderful quality, but it interferes with enjoying the present. The happiest people are those who are engaged in their favorite business and receive satisfaction from this business.
Many psychologists advise, although once a month to live one day and do not try to deny yourself any pleasures, because then you will regret it. They also advise not to be jealous of different stars, because people looking at the star and comparing with themselves, can feel like beggars, fat and unhappy. That's why we are interested in the life of the stars, to make sure that both stars have shortcomings and thereby get satisfaction.
There are 4 rules to feel happy:
1. Treat your friends and family very carefully and do not let them down;
2. Try to find a job that brings you satisfaction;
3. Help those who are in trouble;
4. Do not forget that happy people may lack something.
Julia Sobolevskaya , specially for the site