To the baby fully developed, he needs drawing. All children love to draw! But there are such kids who in the rigid form refuse to paint, shouting: "I do not want!" What to do about it? First, do not panic and calm down, do not immediately think about your inferior child. Understand the causes of this behavior of the crumbs and try to interest the kid drawing.
Because of what does the crumb completely refuses to paint? For example, today the baby is not in the mood or he is not feeling well, maybe now he wants to do other things more than this.
However, this can be one or two times, but what if the kid does not want to paint at all or refuses it periodically? Here, of course, there are other reasons in which we need to understand.
There is also such a reason that the kid does not want to draw on the tutemu that he is asked, especially if the adult does not even try to interest the child in any way.
Parents constantly send the child to do something, and not sit, for example, near the TV. Adults say to crumbs: "Go get something useful, paint at least!" However, the child does not understand why he is distracted from what he is doing now, in order to go to pencils and flamasters?
When children are painted in a kindergarten, the educators should come up with some gaming, entertaining and surprising moments, but they are not always able to attract the attention of the baby.
For example, if the teacher says to the children: "A little bunny has come to us, let's draw a carrot for him!", Then this is unlikely to interest the kids. If even a professional teacher can not always be interested in a certain topic of the music, then parents will not succeed even more.
Very often, children do not want to draw because they do not get something beautiful to draw or because they are not sure of their strength. Such babies constantly refuse from any offers of drawing, moreover, they practically always begin to cry. And all the time they say these words: "I have nothing to gain! I can not!".
To at least somehow solve this problem or at least smootheneee, you need to sit next to a crumb and show him how you draw or show him some new receivers. Maybe you'll even try to explain to the kid that you do not draw well yourself, but you like it. So the child can quickly calm down and wipe the tears, he carefully and calmly take a pencil or brush and begin to paint, and the drawings will not be worse than other children.
Such kids, of course, can draw, they are just afraid that they will not succeed. He thinks that his works will be laughed at by other children or even adults, and maybe even scolded by him for failing karakuli.
Often, children are too confident in their abilities and are ready for all sorts of deeds and exploits. If, for example, ask the baby: "Can you fly on an airplane?" Or "Can you build a house?", Then the little one, of course, will answer: "Yes!". All the young children are convinced that they can do everything, even when in fact they have not tried to do it.
However, if the results of the baby will not always attract attention, will be uninteresting or worse than not receive very good reviews, then he will certainly give up his activities and will not want to draw anymore. Perhaps, they will not show any desire and will start to perform the task of typing, not trying at all, the adult in fact will not be satisfied with his work.
There is one more reason for refusing to draw, which meets very rarely compared to the previous ones. But it is worth remembering that everyone is different and everyone has their own thoughts and beliefs. There are also such kids who simply do not like drawing - they do not like to do it. Even if it is very good to try and beg the child, he will not agree, because he, for example, likes to read books and collect large puzzles.
What should I do if my baby is ready to paint?
- Nothing!
This is very difficult, but it will be best if you do not unbind the kid with what you want or like. Leave the child alone and have the opportunity to practice and get involved in what he likes. Only sometimes you can offer him a piece of paper and paint or pencils, but not insisting and not leaning on the child. Maybe after a while the kid will show interest in drawing, and maybe this will never happen. After all, adults like some things, for example, many women do not like to cook at all. Even if you constantly give cooking books and explain all the advantages of cooking, then you can not love cooking.
However, in each child you can arouse interest and love with a crib, you just need a desire and, of course, time.
How to try to wake up in a kid's love of drawing?
In this case, the main thing is to act properly and in no case be nervous and do not show your discontent. Know that our kids are connected with us nipsihologicheski, therefore constantly feel our mood, and if you start to experience or be nervous, then the crumb will also be in a tense mood.
To instill a child's love of drawing, it is possible to try unconventional techniques. For example, start drawing through stencils, draw with your fingers or sprinkle with colors. Offer the baby what he likes most, then, from which the mood rises.
If the kid does not want to draw, then do not force. Just offer, but unobtrusively. If the crock refuses once, then the second should not be repeated, suggest to do something else.
If the kid suddenly began to draw, then do not bother him. Many adults begin to correct the child, climb with their advice, how to fix something. Be more reserved. Let the baby draw as it does. If suddenly you are strongly disturbed by red grass or an eight-legged dog, then spend on this subject a conversation with the child, but only after he has finished drawing.
Do not make any comments! All that seems to us wrong and not so, the kid seems ordinary and such as it should be. Start with the questions. When the baby shows you his picture, ask him why he painted it that way. Perhaps he drew a grass that grows with aliens, and the dog is not a dog, but a fairy creature that you can not meet in your everyday life.
Do not forget to always praise your baby, for him it's very important. However, remember that children are versed in falsity, so praise those moments that you like, something that is really well drawn.
If you follow such simple rules, you can instill a child's interest in art.
In any case, if the kid is not predisposed to drawing, ask yourself a question, do you like drawing yourself very much ???