Plussy feelings
When a person feels, when he is overwhelmed by strong emotions, he seems to rise, soar. The person begins to reveal the hidden talents, he constantly wants to create something, create for the sake of love. It's no secret that it was in a state of love and love that people achieved a lot. Love is the impetus for achieving new high results. For example, a loving person who has lazily existed all his life, thanks to his feeling, begins to desire something to achieve, something to rush into, and so on. He is ready to go for much for his beloved, and what is surprising, everything that seemed to him stupid and uninteresting, now begins to generate interest, and sometimes even delight. Love really transforms people. They become more open, sociable, they are simply happy. Once a closed and lonely person, after falling in love, begins to fuss about people, communicate and so on. When they say that love inspires, there is a great deal of truth in this. It is thanks to this feeling that you want to do something that they did not do before. They seem to carry life, everything becomes brighter, more pleasant, more fun. According to a person it is always noticeable that he is in love. His eyes give out - they glow. Even if someone tries to hide his love, those who know him well, will still understand everything, since love attaches something special, noticeable to all. Love makes you stay more honest, kind and sympathetic. When we love, we stop being such egoists, because now we want to live for someone else. In addition, thanks to love, a person can always learn something new, achieve such heights, which he never dreamed of. No wonder all great people had muzes, women, for whom and for which they wanted to create. Therefore, you can accurately say that love creates. But, unfortunately, this happens only to a certain point.
Minuses of feelings
Love creates only until a person sees mutual feelings or hopes to receive them. But when he understands that he loves, and he is not loved in return, then all the best that he discovered in himself disappears, and in his place comes pain, anger and depression. How much the person who has disappointed in love changes, simply amazes. Everything that he did for the sake of his beloved, begins to irritate him. It seems to him that it becomes disgusting to do what he did for her and for her. Even if, being in love, a person in a certain area achieved significant results, having lost reciprocity, he, most likely, will stop doing it. When people understand that their feelings have not led to anything good, they are convinced that love is not good, but evil. She's brainwashing and makes you do things they did not do in their normal state. And if their actions were caused by influence, then there is nothing good in them. And let them prove to the person that it was thanks to love that he became better and showed his talents to everyone, he still does not want to believe it. Having fallen in love and not having received reciprocity, the person becomes even worse than was before. He ceases to perceive reality as it was before, because he has a fear of feelings. He simply begins to be afraid to feel something for someone. It often happens that a person begins to aggressively treat people who are positively inclined towards him. In fact, he is afraid of re-feeling something, reliving love again, disappointed again. Often there are cases when after experiencing painful feelings, a person fences off not only from the one he loved, but from all those close to him. He begins to treat the keys with disbelief, because because of stress, he begins to feel that others can do the same. In addition, those who suffered from feelings often develop depression. They completely fence themselves off from the real world, cease to be interested in anything and do not allow anyone to enter. Every day of his life a person perceives either through pain, or detached. He begins to see the reality in a completely different way, like something completely uninteresting or aggressive towards him.
Pros of sensibility
When a person refuses feelings, it becomes much easier for him to live. He deliberately decides to limit himself from strong emotions and ceases to allow himself to fall in love. That is, if he sees that his feelings can go from friendly to stronger, he tries to stop, especially protecting himself from emotional outbursts. Due to this, the person is constantly in emotional stability. He ceases to be too irritable, normally refers to others. Restraining feelings, people tend to think more rationally, because now they no longer succumb to emotions. Many believe that by giving up love, they have acquired more valuable-comfort. Now they do not need to worry so much about someone, get out of their skin to achieve something and prove something. They can live peacefully for themselves, live as they want, and not in the way that love dictates. In addition, the rational perception of the world helps them to see people almost through, not to perceive them through the prism of feelings, because of which we tend to idealize others. Insensitivity helps to think and think soberly.
Cons of insensitivity
Insensitivity turns a person into a robot. When he ceases to experience strong emotions, in the end it turns out that people start to notice how close and loved one ceases to react to the world in the same way as a normal adequate person should do. He becomes too cold and closed, ceases to express warm feelings even in relation to his family, his closest and native people. A person assures everyone that everything is fine with him, only the surrounding people get the impression that in fact he has left only a shell that continues to function, but at the same time ceased to live. The downside of being sensible is that by giving up love, a person refuses a lot, which can bring happiness, fill his reality with novelty and colors. Constantly living in one emotional rhythm, the person just begins to wither, he has lost interest in everything, because it can cause emotions, and emotions do not really need him. Therefore, when people refuse to feel, it often happens that they have a much narrower circle of friends, since many simply do not maintain contact with the robot. And those who, in addition, remain a detachment and try to awaken feelings, simply begin to suffer, because they constantly face an invisible wall of indifference. Love brings to people both joy and disappointment, but insensibility does not bring anything, only emptiness in the soul.