Love for any person does not pass without a trace. She can leave behind her not only memories of happy moments, but also grave, sometimes eternal wounds. The first love in this case can be considered the initial basis for the formation of a person's relationship to love: he will avoid it, since the first love was unhappy, or it seeks it, realizing that love is the basis of all the foundations.
When does the first true love come? Basically, when a person or for the time being a child needs a certain development, the formation of concepts and basic values.
Here you can not specifically talk about when the first true love will come, because each person is unique in its own way and develops in different ways. Someone from the very childhood dreams only of a successful career or about money, while others go the other way, considering the spiritual - the main thing. Parents play a big role in determining this path. After all, if they raise a child from infancy in love and harmony, he will subconsciously strive for this, and the first love will come to him early enough, and in the future he will not be afraid of feelings. Parents are also the main support - without their support, the happiness of first love will be incomplete. In this case, there are thousands of examples.
A little girl comes from a kindergarten and tells her parents that she has found a groom. If parents start to mock the daughter or call it stupid, it can leave a deep wound in the girl's soul, and she will subconsciously avoid love. The first feeling must always be treated with respect and understanding, whenever love comes. In this case, parents should talk with the child, give him support, calm him.
Love comes into our lives in order to decorate it, make it brighter. The time when the first love comes, covers the veil of the mystery of this feeling before the man: he notices that everything around is becoming dearer, that the smile does not come off his face, that when there is happiness, there is also the desire to give it to everyone around.
As Chekhov once said, falling in love, and later also love, is the normal state of the human soul. It is love, specifying it is possible to say it is the first love, indicates to a person what it should be. She polishes his mind, builds a kind of rating of life priorities. How is this possible, for example, in childhood? The child will not, of course, sensibly realize all this, but subconsciously this concept will guide him through life.
It is inherent in nature that the first love, even children's, is taken seriously enough and forever. Why is it so? When the first love comes, new sensations come to her, which before that were untested, new feelings emerge: the desire to take care of the object of one's love, the desire to be constantly with him. All this is new and unusual, and it is this that makes you not let go of such feelings.
The first love is also simply a struggle with oneself, a willingness to bring down thousands of obstacles within the person himself, a willingness to go forward on an unknown path. Namely, this fact gives it even greater charm and firmness, because the struggle is an action, and the inactive person is indifferent. . Therefore, the first love is worth remembering and thanking at least for the fact that it has molded from what was, ourselves, in those moments when the first love will come and dip us into another world.