It is worthwhile to understand why girls often fall in love with scoundrels?
Firstly, scoundrels have always been a "forbidden fruit," which, as you know, is sweet. And no matter how often my mother warned: "Do not walk with this Vaska!", She still did not listen. And it would be better if she did not say it, then the "forbidden fruit" is triggered. Everything is done quite the opposite. It is impossible to refuse a forbidden meeting with your favorite bastard. And so warm the soul of the understanding that all obedient daughters simply die of envy.
Secondly, this is an unforgettable experience of adrenaline in the blood. You really like that your relationship is unpredictable. You do not know what awaits you tomorrow, and from this even more in love. In this bubbling whirlpool of life you will not notice anything. How do you get along with him in new adventurous stories, how he loses your last money in poker and the gold ring you got from grandmother, how do you get into debt together. And nothing that your "Casanova" is not so good in bed, as I would like, and even snores, not letting you fall asleep. "But in old age will be what to remember" - you think.
Thirdly, I'd like to direct it to the true path. How old the story is, about the fact that he, poor, got to prison, standing up for the girl. And who did not hear from the finished womanizer this sad story about his first unhappy love, after which he became like that. Of course, in your head you have a dream, how, thanks to your infinite love, it is corrected and begins to live correctly. Well, that's you, too, bought.
Fourthly, it's so romantic! Girls, it looks like you once read romance novels. After all, always a negative hero is so strong, bright and, of course, a passionate lover. How not to fall in love with this? A positive hero - boring, predictable, and just a bore. In such a girl fall in love only in the pages of books. You need tearful suffering. Without it, you're not interested. Well, unless a decent guy can so gorgeously lie about love to the grave and so beautifully throwing dust in your eyes?
And fifth, because other women also fall in love with scoundrels. And now you are warmed by the thought that you are the one that could curb this stallion. This excessive credulity and naivety have ruined you.
That's why girls often fall in love with scoundrels. This is a kind of dependence, you always feel sorry for the scoundrel, it seems to you that without you he simply can not live. This feeling of pity and compassion for scoundrels, it seems like a disease that can not be run in any case.
Experts advise to begin to understand your soul, and then decide who should be sorry - this outlandish scoundrel or yourself.
Here are some useful tips:
- Fall in love with yourself, in such as you are, with all your advantages and disadvantages. Understand, you deserve to be loved and respected.
- Become a little selfish. Live for yourself, not for him.
"Take a sober look at your chosen one." He is quite an independent person and must himself be responsible for his actions.
- Present your beloved father to your child.
- Be honest with yourself, the relationship between you is not perfect and you are still far from ideal.
And if after all this, your chosen one does not learn responsibility and independence, think about whether to link your life with this person. With a man who often falls in love with many girls. Whatever it was, it's your life, and it's up to you to decide which way to go through it, so you do not regret it later.