Indeed, why build a future with someone, make certain financial investments in a person, if you can find someone who will satisfy all desires and will not demand anything in return. And if it requires, you can easily find another woman and continue your easy life without worries and problems.
But still, what to do if a man does not want a serious relationship? First you need to determine how he treats you and what he wants from your relationship. It may be that a young person is simply not ready to take responsibility for someone else. This can happen due to age, nature, temperament and lifestyle. Simply there are men who need to "walk up". They, initially warn women that they are not ready to bind themselves with something serious and live only for today. Such guys do not even have to blame, because they are initially honest with you and do not make you love yourself. On the contrary, such a young man will sincerely rejoice if he does not cause romantic feelings for the woman. He sincerely does not want to offend anyone and hurt. He perfectly understands that with such a ladies' man like him, no one will be happy and immediately warns about it. But, women, the people are amorous and, in their own way, self-confident. We convince ourselves that we can change and correct such a guy, make him settle down and start a monogamous relationship. Unfortunately, this is possible only in a small number of cases. It's just that the young man must meet the one, the ONLY, for the sake of which he can sacrifice his freedom. And such young people are not always ready for such sacrifices, even for a single victim. Yes, such a guy can sincerely love a girl, but do not confess her feelings, because she knows that sooner or later she will change her, thereby causing pain and breaking her heart. That's why when we are looking for a serious relationship, after all, it is necessary to understand with whom we are trying to build them. Some men can not change anything. And this does not mean that they are bad people. On the contrary, such men, often, behave most honestly. They immediately warn about their intentions and explain what is worth, and what not to expect from such relations. It's just that the girls make up their own tales and ideals, and then they try to match the image of their beloved guy. But, people can not be corrected and changed if they do not want it themselves. Even all-consuming love on your part will not make him an exemplary family man, until he decides that it's time to become so. Therefore, if you know that the lad is ladies' man, do not be reassuring and building illusions. It's better just to disperse with him if you realize that you fall in love. Otherwise, you will live, feeling constant pain and anger from pricks of jealousy.
Of course, there may be another reason that the guy does not want a serious relationship. He just does not love you. Perhaps he is with you just because he sees your feelings, feels sorry for you and considers him a good friend. It is convenient for him, when there is a person next to him who will accept, understand and please. But he does not want more, because he knows - he has nothing to give in return. On the one hand, you are a close person for a guy, and he does not want to break your relationship completely. But, on the other hand, he is afraid to give you hope for something more, because he understands - most likely, more can not be. Of course, this is very painful and unpleasant. Every woman wants to be loved and unique. No one is attracted to the prospect of becoming a mere substitute, a toy that can be used to forget someone. But in this situation everything depends only on the woman. When she feels and understands the relation of the guy to herself, it is necessary to decide for herself how to live on, what choice to make and how to proceed. If a guy does not want a serious relationship - it's unlikely he will want them at all someday. Of course, in life there are always exceptions to the rules. It may be that the guy really sees in you his only one. But, no one will ever guarantee that this will happen. Simply, he is near to you easier and easier, he forgets about his problems, to some extent, feels alive. Perhaps you are for him a close friend and a native person. But, unfortunately, he does not see you as a real life companion. Therefore, in such a situation you need to do something and decide, otherwise it will go to a dead end, and you will be ill and unbearably painful.
You can stop this relationship and try to forget the young man. Perhaps this option will be the most suitable for you. Better, "get over" the feeling immediately, rather than suffer for many years, trying to survive the dislike of a man who has become like the air. Therefore, it is better to collect the will into a fist and try to break the relationship once and for all. But, if you do not want to do this, then try another tactic. Show the guy that he does not need you anymore, that you do not care how he relates and you do not feel any need for him. Of course, it's very difficult to play such a role, but what to do if a man does not want a serious relationship, how not to do just that. If a person is accustomed to having you, you are close to him and will not be lost anywhere, he will be frightened and watch out for cold behavior. The guy will get a sense of ownership. It may very well be that a young man can not just leave it and will want to return you. Sometimes, such emotional shakes force people to understand their feelings and recognize what they have been trying to keep silent about. In the end, you can not lose what you already do not have. But, however, this behavior will remind the young man that you have pride and self-respect, and, to that, will make him think about whether or not serious relations are really undesirable.