Sexual type: how do you know what excites him?


The fact that a woman loves the ears, and the man with the eyes, is known to everyone. However, there are words that can "get" in bed any representative of the stronger sex. Simple and hackneyed phrases like in the movie: "Come on, we'll do it like this" or "I miss you so much" - they help only in Hollywood movies. Today, psychologists are well aware that each type of character reacts only to certain groups of words ...

Every man has his own sexual type - how to find out what excites him, experts suggest. They divide all men into visuals, audials and kinesthetics - according to which of the channels of perception is the most important for them. There are people who are more important than what they saw with their own eyes, than what they heard. In order to "get" such a person (and by the way, most men - visuals), you must show erotic underwear or a rather frivolous picture. Well, if this is not possible, and you, for example, decided to light it with a phone call, you should speak so that your words evoke visible images before your eyes. For example: "I lie across our wide bed, on me - only black stockings."

If your favorite is audial, then what he hears is important to him. In the same situation - seduction on the phone - you need to tell him something like: "There is a quiet music, and I remember your breathless breath ..."

Kinestetik perceives the world with muscles and skin, nails and hair. He remembers sensations, movements, touches. He needs to tell something like this: "I'm freezing in lace underwear, thin hairs on my neck stir from the breeze of a weak breeze."

Who is he, your man?

To determine which channel of perception is the leader of your loved one, what is his sexual type, talk with him about some walk that you both well remember. And note to yourself what words he describes his impressions. Does he talk about pictures of nature (visual), or about singing birds (audial), or does he remember how you walked, and he held your hand (kinesthetic). So you can find out what excites him.

Throw the anchor

Some words or actions can become for your beloved man the so-called "anchor". Then it will be enough to utter this word, to carry out the action, to reproduce any detail of the situation, how his desire will awaken. Suppose, when he first admitted to you in love, there was a smell of lilacs that had just blossomed, and this fresh smell was forever "clinging" in his mind with the strongest romantic experiences. Or your loved one always feels great pleasure when you whisper certain words to him - those who once made the strongest impact on him. And now, as soon as he hears them, he simply can not restrain himself.

At a certain stimulus (in this case - the touch of the sleeve and a certain intonation), the person immediately gives the final result, the one to which he is accustomed.

Many people do not even suspect that they have something "anchor", until it disappears. For example, one lady was very quickly aroused when her husband whispered softly to her in the ear, while being behind her. But from some point on she stopped it, and she already began to worry about the topic: "he does not satisfy me." After suffering a month, she said to him: "You do not say any more tender words to me." My husband was very surprised and reminded her that now, just as yesterday ... Yes, I did say, but there was no effect. And only then the couple could find out that the husband simply shaved off his beard, and the hairs no longer tickled the delicate skin on his wife's neck. The anchor, which quickly aroused the woman, was removed. I had to grow a man again on the face and speak three times more tender words - to return the effect.

Tip: watch closely how your partner reacts to certain words and situations. Perhaps, some word or intonation, breathing or action is for him a powerful anchor, which in many ways contributes to the achievement of orgasm.

Print Forever

So, all people are subject to "anchoring" regardless of their sexual type - how to find out what it excites, you already know. Now about how to "fix" the desired effect. Anchor can appear spontaneously, and can be "delivered" specially. To do this, you need to do several things:

• remember what exactly your man excites most in you;

• create this situation or situation;

• choose some bright words or actions, fragrances or visual images that will anchor;

• Make love so that your chosen anchor would fall on the brightest peak of his experiences. For example, some men love it when they scratch their nails on the back. Try at the most emotional moment of your sex, stick your claws in his back and say some words. Even if they are not the most erotic. But, of course, not a "shovel", but something like "darling".

• Repeat this several times to make the impression "imprinted" (the English term "imprinting") in his subconscious.

Then you can use this anchor in your everyday life. "Dear, let's go to my mother for the weekend," - and the nail through the shirt - the stud. And this is the very word in your ear. He immediately remembers the feeling of luxurious sex, and the chances of agreeing to go to your mom on a visit you will have much more.

Try not to have negative anchors. Any insulting profanity or admission of treason can easily become so. And to repulse any desire not only to sleep together, but also to live together.

Iron curtain

A loving man believes you unconditionally, like a mother's child. And all your words take literally. It would be fine if not for one property of a woman's nature. For example, you are spinning in front of a mirror and saying: "Oh, how I got fat!" You expect that the beloved will begin to object or at least console: "Honey, I will love you and all my life." He says this for the first time, then the second, then the third. We get used to "begging" him for compliments, and he ... begins to take our word for it. So even if you have 46 kg of weight with a height of 176 centimeters, he will still start to think that you are "fat" if you repeat this often.

Tip: for wrinkles and age, shape and complexion, complain only to friends or mother. Loved one should submit his shortcomings as cute little things. For example, "I have a lush ass," and not "thick buttocks." And "a woman should be a statuette" if you find it difficult to gain weight. "In my eyes settled wisdom" - when you are drawn to complain about the wrinkles around the eyes. In all the shortcomings one can find advantages and bring them in the right form.