Oh, how bad we all are, if you believe, dear women. After all, you have to be the last bastard to throw one of you. This you think is normal to change men, like gloves, finding a hundred signs of imperfection. We will try to identify 10 main reasons why we say "goodbye" to you.
Of course, you can simplify the problem and say that, they say, men want an ideal woman who would cook for them, clean them, fully satisfy in bed and fulfill all sorts of desires, besides being moderately smart and modest. But this is not so. In most cases, the woman has at least half the responsibility for breaking the relationship. So, we're leaving when ...
1. The woman became uninteresting
It does not matter what: in conversation or in sex. A man is always looking for if not an ideal, then at least the one with which it is interesting to talk, and in bed is pleasant. Of course, those men who are looking for a woman at a time are not much interested in the level of its IQ. But if it is a question of long-term relationships, then we want to see around ourselves to the best of smart ladies. A woman should not be smarter than a man, since he will feel an inferiority complex. But a silly woman who does not care about anything but serials and women's magazines, he does not need it.
Conclusion - a woman should be an actress to show herself what a man wants to see her.
Sexually, you should also be liberated. Excessive constraint will force a man to look for someone on the side, and excessive activity will make you wonder whether the good half of the city is familiar with the bed talents of his wife?
2. Do not get along with the characters
All seemingly you arrange a man, but now and then scandals arise over trifles. You can not find a compromise, do not make concessions. The only way out here is parting. A man by nature likes to be a leader, therefore he wants his woman to concede to him in conflict situations. Then the choice is for her - if the current partner is expensive, you will have to give in, but there is no court.
In any case, if you do not have an ideal figure and a subtle mind, you should not expect that a man is prepared for anything for you. He will find an alternative much easier than you. This is our demographic situation.
3. The woman is unrestrained
It's unlikely that any man will want to blush for his companion, if in a public place she suddenly begins to behave inadequately, casting a shadow on himself. And to live with such an unpredictable woman, who at any moment can do something stupid or something like that, it makes no sense. Conclusion - learn to control yourself.
4. In the past, a woman led a lascivious lifestyle
Women's "Don Juanism" is called an impartial word, and the attitude towards it in society is negative. Therefore, before you change partners in your youth, think about what you will do after 30 years, when it is more difficult to find a good man, and every dog in the city knows about your stormy past.
A man wants to be if not the first, then certainly not 51-m. And definitely does not want all his acquaintances to have some experience with his woman. Conclusion - think about the future from the moment of puberty. If, of course, you do not want to spend all your life alone. Youth is not eternal.
5. A woman uses a man as an outlet
He talks about his problems, worries, actions all day. Of course, it is necessary to share exciting issues and events, but again - the measure should be in everything.
When you call a young man in the middle of the night and say that you love him very much and are ready to do anything for him, then in time it starts to cause irritation. And if you tell me again and again that you bought a 15-pair pair of shoes for sale and earned a discount card by three percent, buying yourself a shoe, shampoo and makeup, you simply get a man, and with your next call, he will begin a nervous tic.
6. The woman stopped taking care of herself
Yes, appearance does not play a big role in the relationship, however, we can not say that a man does not pay attention to it. And if he met an elegant blonde with an aspen waist and elastic breasts, and after two years of living together she turned into something formless, with sagging delights and huge buttocks, purely from the aesthetic point of view, a man will lose interest in her.
Yes, there are men who like full women. But they are originally looking for those. Conclusion - watch yourself. Your appearance is in your hands.
7. A woman clearly uses a man as a purse
We like to look after women. In addition, we are really happy to take you to a restaurant, we will buy flowers and expensive ornaments, rent it on a yacht and take it to the resort. For this we want to get a little: love and sex. I would like to emphasize the first, because we can buy sex for much more modest money.
If a woman constantly pulls money out of a man, rewarding him with evening sex, but he does not see and does not feel love, sooner or later it will bother him and you will remain without a new fur coat and another necklace.
Conclusion - poumerte your ardor. Or, if you want to draw money from a man longer, show that you love him. At least do not say directly that you want that blouse or ring. You can just hint that this winter in vogue a diamond necklace and fur coat. And you do not want her husband's business partners to think that he does not care about his wife.
8. A woman shows herself too openly that she wants to get married
Some people go so far as to get married for the sake of marriage. If a man wants to marry you, you will feel it. But if at this stage he is not ready for this, then it is useless to force events, only to "scare away".
Do not ever offer sex without a condom, otherwise a man will immediately suspect something is wrong. Yes, and his proposal does not immediately. Of course, a decent man will not leave a woman with her child. But "marriage by flight" is rarely successful.
9. The woman has changed
A man can forgive much, almost everything, except treason. If this happens, be prepared for the fact that if your husband finds out about this, he will immediately break off relations. And no excuses will not help you. If something does not suit you, tell him about it. It is better to leave each other by mutual agreement than after the scandal. And from a legal point of view, getting something from a husband after divorce will be more difficult.
10. The wife began to earn more than her husband
If for a man a large salary is a natural state, thanks to which he self-affirms in life, then for some women this is a test. Earning more than her husband, his wife has a constant temptation to reproach him, to say what a bad man he is, and that without her they would live like beggars.