And as it turns out that during all nine months, when all attention is directed solely to the future mother, the man does not relax at all and is experiencing, perhaps, no less than a woman. Transformation from a man who was not burdened by a family is given to his father unhealthily both on an emotional level and on a physical level. The received data on the work of the brain of future fathers gave us the opportunity to make very interesting and at the same time unexpected conclusions about how your partner will behave while you are waiting for the family's replenishment.
The man becomes disgusted
Your man was in the seventh heaven with happiness, when he learned that he would become a father, but soon his enthusiasm gave way to irritability. However, this is not for long: according to observations made by psychologists, the excitability and nervous irritability of future fathers reaches its apogee by the eighth to tenth week of pregnancy their girlfriends. Why is this happening? It's because a woman knows about her pregnancy before she's confirmed her fears. In this case, she has enough time to prepare psychologically for the birth of a child. The man does not have the same time and he needs a month, or even one and a half, to prepare himself for a new role - to be a father. Women who have reached the childbearing age, especially those who are ready for fertilization on the subconscious, feel the slightest manifestations of pregnancy, since they are oriented towards the birth of a baby. They often check their breasts for sensitivity, try to eat only useful foods, so as not to harm their baby, stop using alcohol, get rid of other bad habits. Therefore, by the time her pregnancy is confirmed, the woman will psychologically be ready for her. The men are somewhat behind in this regard.
His mood is changing very often
As surprising as it may be, however, the hormonal background in this period varies not only in women, but also in men. Science has long known that in pregnancy, the level of hormones of progesterone and estrogen in women increases almost 3-fold. But as recent studies have shown, hormone levels begin to change in men. Through the sweat glands of the parturient woman, pheromones are released. They affect the male body, as a result of which the level of male hormone testosterone is significantly reduced. Instead, the development of the so-called female maternal hormone prolactin begins. All this hormonal leapfrog begins to stimulate the male instincts. During this period in the body of a man there are the same changes that occur during puberty, when he turns a child into a man. This is a fairly slow and at the same time very emotionally costly process, so you have to have patience.
He is gaining weight
Many people have probably heard about the fact that men begin to gain weight during the pregnancy of their girlfriends. But it happens that a man really begins to experience the symptoms of pregnancy. Vmedicine, this phenomenon is called syndrome Kuvad, which in the French translation is translated as "hatching the chicks" or otherwise, the syndrome of empathy. Often the first signs of this syndrome begin to show up in the first trimester, namely at the end of it can last throughout pregnancy. In addition to the fact that future fathers gain weight, they have other signs - for example, nausea or vomiting in the morning.
He equips the family nest
If a man liked to pat on the house even before pregnancy, then when you become pregnant, he will turn into a real hen. Like the future mother, the fathers are also preparing to mend the baby, equipping their apartment, like a nest. But, as you know, a man faces a global task. In addition to the fact that he needs a son, he also needs to plant a tree and build a house. For a woman, the child is a beautiful creature, which must be fed, dressed in the most beautiful clothes and messing with it. A child for a man is first and foremost a successor of the family, who must be protected and given what he needs, whether it's a new stroller or a car from the last series.
His ears noticeably sharpen
Perhaps a man hears you on the floor of the ear, but as soon as you start talking about the child, all his attention will immediately switch to you. In addition, the rumor of a man is preparing for a global change, as if preparing for a crypt, since a mother can not always be near a baby, so he'll have to stay with him alone. Another trick of nature is for a man to take care of his baby, how about continuing the woman. Although the young mothers in this case moved further. Their hearing is more subtle, because a man is always ready to listen to the child's cry and react to it properly.
He demonstrates the love for the future child
Although a man does not have such a connection with a child as a woman, however, he begins to prepare for an inextricable biological connection that will appear after the child is born and tries to show all his love. The man aggravates not only the hearing, but also many other feelings. He seems to experience anew the first feeling of love, only this time the object of adoration is not a girl, but a daughter or a son. This sensitivity appears before birth, but when a man takes the baby for the first time in his arms, all feelings, to the brim with tenderness, are transmitted to the child. It turns out that watching a child grabs his attention, no less than football.