But it's not about that. Sex without obligations in our time has already become a common occurrence. It is long to argue, it is good or bad. If it used to be believed that casual sex is primarily for men, now emancipation has turned society's views upside down. Or maybe the opposite, put everything in its place. People who go to such a relationship, driven by a thirst for passion, but not the desire for responsibility for the partner. Most often, casual sex occurs at the first date. Causes of several, could not contain passions, the hope of one of the partners to consolidate the relationship, the understanding that the serious progression of the novel still will not work out.
But if so happened in life, then remember the most important rule of sex for one night is SAFETY. About it will be discussed first. Random sex, above all, is a danger to your health. Whether it is necessary to tell now about AIDS, venereal diseases or an unwanted pregnancy? But if "hunting is stronger than bondage", take care of the protection. Better than a condom, the means are not yet thought out, and cheap and angry. And while the passion is not overwhelmed, politely and convincingly remind him of your partner, and best of all always have it with you.
Secondly, if you decide on so-called exit sex with an unfamiliar person, make sure that one of your friends knows about your place of stay. In such a case, the risk is irrelevant. A short call or SMS will not take much time, but it will protect you from an undesirable outcome.
The second rule is honesty. Be honest, at least with yourself. Do not count on a long-term relationship, ending with a happy ending. One night is unlikely to radically change your destiny in the direction of a happy ending. Lone wandering billionaires are from American films. Sex at night is just the realization of your sexual fantasies. A man gives your body at your disposal, but not a soul. However, you do not hurry to open it to your casual partner. One night you do not have to do this.
The third rule is most likely a recommendation. Once I've made up my mind, be the organizer, the manager of your sex project. If you do not want to and here and there, take care of the meeting place. Will it be a cozy nest in your home or hotel room, try to make an element of aesthetics and taste. Include nice music. Avoid "paddle the nose". If the object of your lust is tense and somewhat insecure, help him to relax. That's where a small portion of alcohol will be appropriate! But in this case it is important not to overdo it. Alcohol enhances desire, but sometimes, with excessive use, becomes an obstacle to its satisfaction. Useful in such cases can be an easy massage. Sometimes a man wants to speak out, cry "into a vest". Do not refuse to him in such pleasure, show tact.
If you have it, stay until morning, for the sake of all the same security. If you have it, look at the circumstances. In the morning, offer him a light breakfast and (if you do not want a repetition), thank you for the pleasant time spent.
But if you are a fan of sexual extreme, and all these subtleties are alien to you, then all the same, the rules of hygiene play in your favor.
If you do not like sex, do not engage in "parsing flights", it's just not your partner. Better politely to say goodbye than to instill in a person an inferiority complex.
Fleeting sex is so called, that irrevocably passes by. Do not bother your casual partner, do not impose yourself. He does not owe you anything, just as you do him. Do not expect any promises from him, and do not promise anything.
Do not expect to continue. A man who goes for one-time sex, most likely is not ready for a long relationship. Again, too affordable a woman frightens off. Remember that by nature man is a hunter, he prefers to pursue his prey, setting up nets and traps, and then enjoying the victory. And you hardly want to connect your destiny with a man changing women, like gloves.
These simple rules of sex will help you not only to eclipse your physical health, but also mental balance.
And now a few words in defense of sex for one night. The risk is justified, and the game is worth a candle, if it happens that out of the miuto passion there is a miracle called "Love", if suddenly he and she realize that they can not without each other, that they finally found what they longed for. And let the momentary weakness, a little adventure will become a nice page of their family biography.