Rethinking the Past
It happens that a person reinterprets his feelings and deeds and decides that all that was not. For example, two years ago the girl could say that she likes a young man and she would like to build a relationship with him. But over time, the lady claims that this was a friendship, but not love. Why is she doing this? Perhaps it has some kind of resentment for a young man. Or she compares her past feelings with real ones, which, perhaps, are stronger or stronger. Accordingly, the girl begins to believe that the past relationship was completely different and refuses the words spoken earlier. In this case, a person does not understand what is contrary to himself. Simply then he was confident that he felt one thing, now he relies on absolutely different sensations and simply forgets about the past. In this case, it is difficult to even blame anyone for anything. Simply, under the influence of certain emotions and impressions, people change their opinion and forget about what they said before. The stronger the feelings - the more confidence of all. So, if you understand that a person changes his mind solely by the influence of emotions, do not be angry with him. He simply sees the past and his past statements exclusively through the prism of his present state, which can differ significantly from what was.
Fear
Another reason why people refuse to watch out for words is a banal fear. For example, a person can shake a superfluous, and then, realizing that because of his words he falls into the thick of the conflict or someone from close people can refuse it, he starts to back down and refuse everything he said. In this situation, it turned out to be almost every one of us, so it's hard to judge those who do this. On the one hand, this, of course, is ugly and wrong. But on the other hand, no one wants to become the culprit of a quarrel or a scandal, especially if it concerns a personal one. That's why it often happens that someone told someone something to the secretary, and then he begins to refuse these words. In such a situation, it should be advised to never use such statements as arguments in any dispute. If you know that hypothetically a person can give up word-for-word, since nothing should have been said at all, it is better to not spread about the information that you accidentally received. Most likely, no one really needs to know anything, and the person who told you this does not need to be substituted, because he did it purely by accident or believing that you can entrust your secret.
Manipulation
Another reason why a person can refuse his words is the manipulation of others. In this case, people use the word to set someone against a certain person (people) or to force some person to do what he wants. In such situations, people start talking one thing, another - another, eventually create a situation in which everyone ceases to trust each other and rely only on it. It is worth noting that in this case you need to know who, what and how to say, what words to take back and so on. Not all people are ready for such "operations". In most cases, such manipulations are revealed, because the person simply hides. However, there really are cases when by means of such seemingly simple actions, a person can quietly manipulate a group of people as he pleases. In such situations, it is necessary to closely monitor what people are saying. The manipulator can always be calculated. Just need to trust your intuition and experience, as well as not to question the likes of close people. If the manipulator is confronted by the cohesion of opinions and trust in each other, it very quickly punctures something, and you can convict him of lying. But if you can not do this, then the similar manipulator will constantly look at everyone with honest eyes and say: "I did not say that", and behind your back you will do everything that he will think of in his head.
Non-persistence
Often people take their words back, because they just can not stick to one point of view. They rush from one to another, give in to emotions, say everything that comes to mind, and then take their words back. Such people have not quite stable psyche. A specific moment, they really can with absolute certainty, for example, promise you that in a week you eat together on vacation. But after three days such a person will take back his words and say that he does not want anything and is going to sit next two weeks in front of the computer. And one day later he will change his mind and again gather somewhere to go, but this time he will choose another place for rest. And so he can take his words and give new promises to infinity. With such unstable people it's very difficult to communicate, but if you still want to be close to such a person - do not be arrogant. He does it absolutely not from evil. It's just that his psyche behaves in a similar way, and he only expresses what he feels. Instead of shouting again, when such a person says what is convenient for you, grab him and do not hesitate to carry out what he promised, so that later, as they say, there was no way back.
Alienation
Unfortunately, people give up their opinions and take the words back, because they simply fall under someone else's influence. For example, they can say what they think, but in the presence of a certain person they will reject their words and begin to express not their own opinion, the atoms, that he imposed on them. In this situation, a person declares that he thought wrong before, and only now his eyes have opened. And almost always in such situations, they do not simply give up their words. They begin to violently criticize what was said earlier, talk about themselves are not the most flattering things and generally behave as if they did something terrible. By the way, often the words that they take back are true, but the new opinion turns out to be wrong and awkward, but a person who is under someone's influence is simply not able to notice it.
In any case, if a person takes his words back - meaning he believes that such an act will be the most correct. A simple opinion can be a deliberate result of the analysis of certain facts or the influence of someone or something on his mind and mind.