It's good when everything is fine in family life: prosperity, health, sex, children, etc. But some men, after a while, start complaining that their wives refuse to have sex. According to polls of women, they refuse to have sex with their husbands for many reasons. Let's consider why wives refuse husbands in sex.
Why do women refuse to have sex with their husbands?
Wives deny their husbands in intimacy for many reasons. Quite a lot of women do not like it when a man pulls her head towards the penis. At the same time, she experiences a degree of humiliation. Naturally, when a woman herself does not express a desire to do this, then coercion pushes her away.
Ladies deny their husbands in the vicinity because of his inattention to requests. For example, the wife asked her husband to fix the socket, and he ignored her request. The woman in this case wants to prove to her husband that if he does not count with her, then her reaction will be the same when he wants intimacy. The lack of attention to their wives is a popular reason for refusing sex.
Insults, rudeness and assault on the part of her husband for a long time settle in the memory of the wives. Not many women think that if the husband beats, then he loves. If before the husband was sensitive to his wife and praised her, then the usual for some time, "fool - shut up!" Kills sexual desire in women. A woman always wants to be desirable and the most beloved for her man, but insults, and even more so, assaults are far from the objects of her dreams.
The untidy appearance of her husband (beer belly, overgrown hair, dirty head) - this all repels. Would a woman want to surrender to such a man? But very often it happens that by marrying, a man ceases to follow his appearance, thinking that his wife will not go anywhere.
Some husbands do not want to do anything themselves after the wedding. For example, they can not heat up the dinner themselves, do not know where the socks are, etc., they have no initiative. A woman always wants to make love with a real man, for which she, like a stone wall, and not with her "son". In this case, the wife just does not feel weak and defenseless and sometimes looks for a man on the side. Husbands, think about it!
Miserliness of the husband is another reason for the wife's refusal to have sex. Unwillingness of her husband to spend money on his wife greatly offends her. When a husband stops buying his wife's outfits, giving flowers, thereby showing his indifference to her, he simply depresses her sexual desire.
Other reasons for the refusal of wives from sexual intimacy
Women refuse husbands in sex because of poor hygiene. Before you have sex, it is customary to follow the rules of hygiene, both from the side of the wife and from the side of the husband. But many men are lazy to put themselves in order. This excites the unwillingness of intimacy in a woman.
An important reason is the selfishness of her husband. Ideally, sex should bring orgasm to both parties. But sometimes the husband in a fit of passion ceases to think about his wife and thinks only of his own profit. He forces you to have sex in his favorite poses, which sometimes makes your wife uncomfortable. Periodic selfishness on the part of her husband discourages the desire of sex from his wife.
It happens that the husband, wanting sex, does not even think about the preliminary caresses. In other words, he wants love at once, without thinking about his second half. Periodic refusals of caresses contribute to the dissatisfaction of women. A woman who does not get pleasure simply stops wanting sex.
Quite often in the process of sex, husbands attack their wives, applying coarseness or require anal sex. But many wives are simply silent about the fact that they do not like it. For this reason, women often refuse sex, coming up with new reasons for refusal. Before you translate your desires into reality after watching any porn film, you should definitely consult your "half."
The reason for refusing sex can be a periodic smell of alcohol. Men, coming home on a merry do not understand that a person who did not drink alcohol unpleasant smell of fumes. Also, the reason for refusing sex can be physiological changes in the female body.