Future children in some completely mysterious way help to change a lot in the life of their parents. If you are attentive to the signals, you will for certain find out how often you are visited by thoughts about what you really would like to do in life, what changes you would like in work, in the environment, in relations with relatives, what you see yourself in future.
Of course, in some young mothers the situation is so close to the ideal: a favorite profession, a wonderful career, a strong family. But there are many other and completely different examples around when mother is forced to engage in unloved business to provide for the family, to put up with the relations that do not satisfy her, and so on. Serious changes that carry the pregnancy and the forthcoming birth of a new person, many give strength to honestly assess the current moment and try to paint an "ideal picture" of life, which really would be desirable to live in. The child allows to understand that life is beautiful, and his the appearance will change everything around.This concept often helps future mothers to realize the quality of life, to be more calm and balanced.Because of this depends the health of the future baby.Kid is a long way into the interesting life of the mother.
It so happened that when communicating with many women (young mothers) who changed their lives, it is when they are pregnant or with the birth of a baby. Of course, this requires a certain courage, because it is always terrible to change the established existence, especially if it is more or less safe. But the result is worth it, as the examples show.
Many "retrained mothers" can be found among breastfeeding consultants: in fact, in this profession, the most important is not so much theory as your own successful experience of breastfeeding several babies (surely it should be supported by theoretical training and certificates that have the most serious consultants). Among my consultants I know, there is a former journalist, a musician, and a writer. Many combine practical consulting with writing articles on this topic, which also brings to their life and element of creativity. Interest in upbringing and childhood stimulates women to organize such events.
Time is just for the two of you.
It's no secret that for so many young mothers the appearance of a baby becomes a real test for strength. And not least because of unjustified expectations, from unfulfilled hopes. Do not hope for such an important matter. Nine months of waiting are given, including in order to prepare your small family for the time being, to the appearance of a new member who will change a lot, if not all, in the usual way.
Now you have enough time to discuss your views on family life as closely as possible, prioritize, tell him about your desires and needs (men are not telepaths, do not expect them to have a magical understanding of everything that happens to you), try understand his feelings and expectations. The more you learn about each other now, the less likely the emergence of "unexpected" problems, which, alas, often arise in many families with the birth of a baby. And try to organize a full vacation - your romantic gift to your husband .This time is only for you two, full of love and expectation, will give you strength later, at moments when life will seem too tense, monotonous, with a lot of new problems.