Your relations with colleagues are not perfect? It would be advisable to make some changes in your behavior. Always speak in a friendly voice, smile and say goodbye to bad habits that make us feel unhappy, and because of which we can not make full use of our professional inclinations and abilities.
Stop complaining
Pretty to cry to colleagues in a vest! Constant complaints that you can not do this or that, that your life is hard, and work does not bring pleasure, does not carry any purpose in itself. They only irritate others, distract from work and "feed" your bad mood. And, of course, happy people will avoid you. Nearby there will be only the same losers, next to which you will never achieve success.
Do not get involved in gossip
The same goes for gossip. It's time to stop! Next time, when your friend wants to address you with some gossip about a colleague, simply answer with one word "interesting" or "wow", and then add the words - sorry, but I have to work. Believe me, it will be better for everyone.
Do not criticize others
It happens that you need to criticize a colleague or subordinate for his execution. But with criticism you need to be more careful. If possible, try to find positive traits in a person in order to maintain a counterweight. Remember! Criticism should be constructive, not cruel. All the rest is just spitting and slander.
Do not blame yourself publicly
You made a mistake, and immediately you thought about the defeat. The possibility of dismissal looms, other horrible pictures ... Stop! Nobody's perfect. If you make the mistake, learn to take responsibility for the defeat. Then you will have the chance to acquire irreplaceable experience, to improve your skills. Otherwise, you will simply be humiliated with colleagues, you will fall in the eyes of your superiors, you will not achieve career growth. Respect yourself.
Do not be too serious
Let's smile! Of course, this is not easy for busy workers in such difficult market conditions. But this is no reason not to smile from time to time and not to joke at all. Each problematic issue can be solved if the stress is reduced due to humor. You should not do a humorous concert at an important meeting, but you should not sit with lean faces either.
Are you bored at work? Do not pretend!
You do not want your boss to know about this? Probably not. Maybe, you should do your job improvement, learn a foreign language, a new computer program. If you have free time, use it to increase your competitive value. It can always come in handy.
Do not be isolated
Nowadays in the labor market, where everything is upside down, professional contacts are more important than ever. So do not try to hide in the closet. Try to keep in touch with everyone, both inside the company and outside it.
Do not be afraid to express your opinion
Even if you still had problems expressing your views at meetings with the boss, it's never too late to change it. Express problems related to the work that you care about and about which you have the necessary knowledge. Then, during the meeting, you can submit your comments, speaking specifically and on the topic. You will be surprised how seriously people treat other employees who are carefully trained and able to speak. Remember! If you already have a desire to take part in the discussions - speak briefly and always on the topic.
Put aside a meaningless babble!
Speak only when you have something to say. Speak not only for the sake of dispelling the silence. Others will certainly appreciate it. Still, it's work, and not sit-rounds on the bench.
Do not waste time on social networks
This is the leader among the forbidden things at work. The loss of time at work is as old as the work itself. Chiefs, in particular, are annoyed at the excessive use of computers by the employees not for their intended purpose. Networks are delaying, people forget about work, they are leaving their duties. This is the most harmful habit of half of modern workers. But getting rid of it is simply necessary. Perhaps you will not be happier at work in the short term, but it will protect you in the long run.