There are two opposite points of view regarding whether it is worth trying to build love relationships online. Conservative adherents of the first believe that dating and relationships on the Internet can not be considered serious and suitable only for very busy, or too shy or insecure people. Supporters of the second point of view insist that dating, friendship and even love relationships on the Internet have long become a part of everyday life and, in fact, are no different from offline communication.
Not bowing to either side, we emphasize that flirting on the Internet can be interesting and useful even if only by the opportunity and the prospect of growing into something more, but already in real life. Those who wish to experiment in this relatively new form of personal relations for our country offer several useful tips on how to make the first steps.- Create an attractive personal page in a social network or on a dating site. This will be your "face on the Internet" and a visiting card for dating. Fill it with information about yourself, put some interesting photos. Among the photos must be one of your full-length image and a close-up photo of the person. Do not lay out too many photos, your page should not be like the annals of everyday life. Make sure that the photos represent you in a favorable and positive way.
- Have patience, be prepared for failure. Unlike everyday life, the Internet does not allow communication immediately to form a full-fledged impression of the person with whom you communicate. Unfortunately, often you can understand that a person does not suit you, only having spent a lot of time to learn the traits of his character. Do not be discouraged or upset, it's only a consequence of the distances that you and the interlocutor share in communication.
- Try to diversify communication through offline offline dialogs. Even if there are long distances between you, you can write to each other sms or, best of all, call the phone. This will allow us to get to know the partner more closely, to make the relationship more alive. In addition, this is the first step towards the withdrawal of relations from the Internet into real life.
- Do not waste time on unsuccessful options. Love relationships on the Internet differ dynamism and ease. You can equally quickly how to make new acquaintances, and break them. Relationships that have reached a dead end can be interrupted without hesitation, as soon as they are not interesting to you. So you can sort out a large number of potential options in a short time.
- "Trust but check". The global network is full of dangers and is an easy tool for deception. If the profile or behavior of a person seemed dubious to you, do not be lazy to check the facts through the search engines or personal pages of his or her friends or acquaintances. Look for in Google the specified place of work or activities that your correspondence partner visits: do they really exist, are they in reality, as you are told? Read the blog posts and the pages of friends, does their content match your idea of a person?
- Do not put too much hope in a relationship until they get into real life. Do you consider flirting on the Internet an easy hobby? Do not take it too seriously? Do you have relations with several partners at once? Keep in mind, your friend or girlfriend can do the same. Freedom of the Internet is freedom for all, remember this.