So how can we save the family, the interest of our husband to ourselves, be multifaceted, sociable and good mistress? To begin with, it is worthwhile to understand what kind of housewives you belong to. There are several.
The first type. Household . The most important for such a housewife is the cleanliness and order in the house. They do not get tired of draining, cleaning, washing, washing, cleaning, ironing daily. It is possible that she does not pay proper attention to her appearance, but everything in the house glitters, sparkles and smells delicious. Banks are arranged in alphabetical order, there is no dust on the books and in the farthest corners.
The second type. Lovers of shops . This type of housewives are those girls who are absolutely not interested in homework. Their element - shops and shopping centers. How to wash the dishes, where the garbage is thrown and why they do not need this device, but they will easily find in the store a shelf with men's jerseys. These housewives require a lot of money for their maintenance, the presence of a housekeeper (someone should clean the apartment) and interest in their purchases.
The third type. Mom . All his life a housewife takes a child. He is the center of her universe, the whole world is spinning around him. All that she does around the house is done for the child. She is not interested in her appearance, she cares about that the child was dressed, fed and laid to sleep.
Millions of young and not so women are housewives, they sit at home, do household chores, raise children. And, regardless of what type of housewife you are, you should always be interesting for your man. Housewife, how to be interesting for her man? Just. Read carefully and follow my instructions!
The most important rule that you must remember in an effort to be an interesting man is to create diversity. You can not be bored at home. If you think that the houses are dull and monotonous, then so will your man. He will consider that you are not able to bring diversity and interest into your life. So, the main salvation for you will be diversity! It must always be present in everything. Starting with how and what you cook, ending with sexual relations. Surprise your man every day with new dishes, interesting stories, appearance, and everything, anything. Be for him a companion, friend, passionate lover, a good mistress, a wise mother and a stupid girl. Men love it when different women are next to them. And you can be anything, so you'll never be tired of your man. In order to be able to be different it is important to engage in self-development. At your disposal are books, the Internet (just do not sit all the time on women's sites, there are many other interesting things), television (choose only quality, cognitive and educational programs, no serials and talk shows), communicate with friends, meet with different people , sign up for some courses. In a word, live! But, it is important to be able to switch from one event in your life to others, so as not to look stupid and inappropriate.
If you are a housewife, you need to know how not to be boring for your beloved. In addition to everyday worries and troubles, raising children there is a huge number of interesting things that you can do. It can be sports, pianoforte, dancing, drawing, music, cross-stitching. In a word, everything that you have long dreamed about, but there was not time to do it. Naturally, I'm not talking about the fact that it's worth exchanging family leisure for hikes in the forest, for gatherings with girlfriends. But, you already have enough free time, while there is no husband, while the children are at school. You can do anything, anything. Just do not spend hours watching soap operas and reading about the life of the stars of show business. You have your own, no less interesting and exciting life, which is time to pay attention. If you finally do what you've been dreaming of for a long time. For example, dancing or drawing, then in the evening you can tell your husband about the event. He will know that you too have deeds, your own events, interests. Ideally, of course, if your hobby positively affects the financial condition of the family. For example, you can start sewing dolls and sell them to specialized stores. Small, but your income is secured. Husband will appreciate it.
In the way a housewife should be interesting for her husband there is another important point - sex. Where without it? He is so important in the pair, it is he who makes the relationship harmonious and interesting, close and touching. Problems in sex can lead to male betrayal or withdrawal from the family. That's why, it's so important, to be a real expert and dissolute mistress. You should always be ready for sex, often take the initiative. After all, this man works all day, communicates with clients, directs subordinates, he is tired. Therefore, you should be more active, think up pleasant erotic moments. Make him a relaxing massage, prepare a warm bath. In order to know how to diversify sexual relations, read more thematic literature, register for a geisha course, or for a strip-plastic. So, you can save diversity in your sex life, and, sometimes, surprise your husband with your skills.
Another important rule that a good housewife should observe. It is not necessary to discuss domestic problems with her husband. It's just you who are interested in spots, dust, a dishwasher, a broken tap and a broken vase. Your husband does not care. Your task is to keep the house clean, to make it cozy. But to tell about how you do it, perhaps, it is not necessary. Your husband thinks about his work, he has contracts and contracts in his head, he calculates profits and expenses from the company's work, and you tell him about a broken tap! So there are the plumbers who repair the cranes, not your husband. His job is to make money, take care of you and the child, and not think about how to screw the nut into the tap. Understand that he already wants to rest from his thoughts. And you start to hammer his head with his everyday problems. If you still really want to share your thoughts, then choose positive and pleasant events that will raise a man's spirits. In the end, this is your care - home.
Many housewives forget to listen with the passage of time. When, your day is like one another, when there is nothing interesting and bright in your life, it is natural that your thoughts revolve around you. Not only is it time to fight and fix it, it's still important to learn how to listen again. Do you remember how, at the very beginning of your relationship, you opened your mouth and listened to what your man told you. And now? You can not remember what he told you yesterday, because you were thinking about pans and spots at that moment? It's terrible! Remember that men are important when they are listened to when their wife takes part in their lives. Learn to listen, and you can escape from your own household chores and plunge into the world of your husband. Well, what, that you are a housewife. How not to be boring for a beloved man you know! And this, perhaps, is the guarantee of a happy family life.