Boring, monotonous and gray at work, nothing interesting happens around and every day is a marmot day. Discharge is quite a service romance. These amorous intrigues at work are fraught with a lot of unexpected twists and turns, and therefore carries such a veiled piquancy. About the final stage, no one thinks, it will be later, but now ... Adrenaline..flirt is always pleasant. What a wonderful feeling when you are in love or in love with you. Relations can be made and by correspondence - it is completely safe. Until you realize that you are close to the soul, emotionally or similarly in views - do not let it go. If the delicacy is easy to get, the appetite will quickly disappear.
If you are already tightened into such a relationship, try to minimize caressingly - diminishing treatment to each other, try to pay less attention to each other in the workplace. But during lunch, coffee - pause Your fantasies in communication no one limits. Do not tell everyone how you spent your weekend or how you want to spend them, if you do not want the entire office whispering about you. Sometimes it is difficult to restrain emotions when one of you is criticized, so you will suffer further because you could not protect your friend or girlfriend from sinister slander. If you are declassified, then let others know that no relationship will harm the work. It is possible to love, and at the same time to work productively. Well, if your novel is only pleasant for both conversations during a lunch break - it's not so bad - well, that's a completely different story.
Quite often romance novels at work end, and it does not matter. If the man was not the same as you imagined him, and you did not fall in love, do not pull the relationship. Or you go or he. In any case, do not tear the relationship sharply, since it is very painful for your friend and colleague and nobody will put the sticks in your wheels, of course, if your relationship has not gone too far. Try to make him drop you if you decide for yourself that it's time to part. Give vent to your imagination. Always calms the thought that you were not thrown, but you left. If you feel that it is likely that the first will throw you. Neither today, but tomorrow break with you relationship - it's better to leave yourself, without screaming and scandals.
Only you decide what is more important for you: new feelings or work. If you die from the lack of new love experiences and emotions, then a love story at work is for you. But if you are going to build a career, and the work for you is important and interesting - try to look for your love outside the office walls. And act on the principle - do not litter at home.
Life is unpredictable and the severity of our mistakes sometimes hits us hard.